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syntheta

26 London, UK Gender Nonconforming, Cis Woman

Gender Nonconforming, Cis Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 20–33
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:12pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Student
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Status
Open relationship
Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Swedish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I like science, photography, comedy, dancing, charity/thrift shops, yoga, lifting, cycling, internetting. I'm polyamorous.

Champagne socialist.
(But srsly tho, anti-capitalist/anarchist, intersectional feminist, bright green environmentalist.)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Have just moved into the awesomest big queer house in NW London.
I'm officially 10 months in and in a sort of PhD limbo atm, I want to continue it, but I couldn't stand NZ anymore after 5 months back there, so I took the first opportunity to piss off back to England (I lived in Cambridge for 2 years).
Pretty excited about now getting to go to the Dublin anarchist book fair in April. I'll be living in Dublin from maybe July or so, it's all up in the air atm.
My non-monogamous bf Hydeandsikh (lol 99% match 0% enemy, congrats, matching algorithm) lives there.

Learning Swedish
Selling anything I can't fit into a suitcase.
Getting back into lifting. Goal is deadlifting twice my bodyweight.
Being sad I had to sell my SLR of 3 months, but actually maybe relieved because holy hell this is a lot of post-processing to do.
https://www.flickr.com/photos/93196871@N02/sets

Listening to HPMoR, all of David Harvey's readings, Novara.fm, NPR and as much of The News Quiz as I can find.

I did my undergrad in NZ. I've tutored a fair few phys/maths papers. Self-employed by necessity.
I don't own a car and don't plan to. (Yeah I'll still be cycling when I'm 90 :-P)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting distracted. Or focusing really intensely. It's one of those.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I _think_ that maybe it perhaps might be that I have thigh-length multi-coloured hair.

I've been described as scary, outgoing, and shy as first impressions. I don't fake friendliness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ug8KiS0W85Y

TV shows:
The Wire, Futurama, Firefly, Community, Veronica Mars, Angel, Doctor Who, Monty Python, QI, Black Books, Avatar TLA, Dollhouse, Sherlock (BBC), A Bit of Fry and Laurie, Archer, Blackadder, Breaking Bad, Legend of Korra, GoT, Adventure Time, Orange is the New Black, Colbert Report, Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt,
If you like Big Bang Theory I'm judging you. Seriously bro.

Books:
Douglas Adams, Neal Stephenson, Lemony Snicket, Catch 22, Harry Potter, Harry Potter and the Methods of Rationality, Orwell, Huxley, Anne Frank, God and the State, GEB, The Extended Phenotype, Dune, The Sandman, Transmetropolitan, ... Oh how I remember when I used to have time to read fiction...

People:
Bertrand Russell, Mikhail Bakunin, David Harvey, Stephen Fry, Feynman, Tom Lehrer, James Butler (Novara media), Carl Sagan, Chomsky

Music:
Purity Ring, Chvrches, Azealia Banks, Grimes, Bat for Lashes, Little Dragon, Porcupine Tree, Daft Punk, Crystal Castles, Minuit, Emancipator, Symphony of Science, Röyksopp, Phantogram, Trust, Parov Stelar, Starfucker, CocoRosie, MS MR, NIN, Metronomy, FKA Twigs

Movies:
Lord of the Rings, Serenity, Hunger Games, Amelie, Juno, The Pianist, Kinsey, Hawking (2004), The Theory of Everything (lol Stephen lived in John's apparently?), Blue is the Warmest Colour, Shortbus, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

Comedy:
XKCD, Dinosaur comics, A Softer World, Andrew O'Neill, David Mitchell's Soapbox, Dylan Moran
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Internet, my friends, plane tickets, bike, yoga, meds/supplements.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future. How people work. How to contribute to human progress. How much I love my friends. How to overthrow capitalism. Why so many people are ignoring the absolute clusterfuck that is 21st century CO2 levels.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I dunno, out if there's something good on. If not, probably chatting or studying or photo-editing or posting on tumblr too much while listening to something.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This isn't actually my natural hair colour.

Dumb question aside, I guess a lot of people would consider the fact that I've had a chronic pain syndrome (fibromyalgia), since I was 16 (undiagnosed until 22), to be private.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
My filter is set at 75%, btw.

You're intelligent, honest, humourous, a polymath and/or unconventional in some way.

Looks-wise I tend to go for slim darkish-haired guys in the 5'9-6'4 range. I seem to have a thing for cupid's bows. Snappy dresser is a plus. I'm really not into really masculine, "rugged" looking guys.

Don't bother messaging me if you are: not a feminist, anti-choice, racist, pro-gun "rights", homophobic, transphobic, right wing, religious, superstitious, pseudoscientific or a climate change-denier (see pseudoscience), prescriptivist or neoliberal.