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43 South Bend, IN Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 29
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
A little extra
Other and laughing about it
Has kids and doesn’t want more
Has cats
My self-summary
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I am a sincere, honest, father of two awesome boys who live out of town. I am painfully polite and caring to a fault. I am on here looking for an awesome person to spend time with.
My ideal first date would be coffee or a drink with a chance to talk. I really like to hear people's stories and find myself to be a good listener. I am turned on by intelligence and shall we say a bit of attitude.
What I’m doing with my life
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I just graduated!!! My job has little to do with my degree, but I have a job that I love. I wish I could do it full time, but the budget just is not there. So I help out some restaurants to pay the bills.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking to anyone. I love to cook and am told I am pretty good at it. I can hold my own at Scrabble and rule at Trivial Pursuit. I also give stellar massages.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, definitely and long eyelashes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I tend to read a lot of history and historical based fiction. However, I have read all of the Harry Potter books and most of the Stephen King books (Bag of Bones my favorite, I cannot bring myself to watch the TV movie). I think I have seen every documentary made. I like all kinds of movies, everything from Blazing Saddles to Lord of the Rings, and most music except country. There, I said it. I just don't get it. TV, I like Pawn Stars/Storage Wars genre and Sons of Anarchy, and my roommates got me into True Blood. I am vegetarian but can cook anything! However, I like Italian and Asian the most.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids
My family and friends
My cat...she makes me laugh
Cheese!!!, I'm vegetarian
a vehicle to get me there
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I got here...trying to not make some mistakes again, but so happy I made some of those decisions. I have lived very well, and have known love. What do i do next?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Helping out at one of many restaurants I assist, or at home cooking and watching TV. I am a firm believer of shop local, so I like the neighborhood bar scene.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I finally grew up enough to stop taking myself so seriously.
You should message me if
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If you like good conversation, honesty, passion, and good cooking. If your profile pic is not of your dog. I am not pretty per say, yet my picture is still out there. Just like to know whom I am talking to.