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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28-52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 20
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

When people find out what I have written their response is usually, "Oh, you're a real writer." - Which is sad and funny at the same time.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm forever a music fan so one night I'll be at a Melvins show and the next at Slim Cessna's Auto Club, but dare I also go to Redd Kross and OFF!

I read A LOT....a book or two a week.

I like dive bars with great jukes (not the internet crap ones) and bending the law.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Teaching, writing, other stuff I get paid for....forever grateful that my work is my passion.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
They tend to look at my eyes, but if I'm dancing, I have some mad moves.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Hunger by Knut Hamsun, Journey to the End of the Night by Celine, Bukowski, Kerouac, Michel Houellebecq, contemporary fiction, essays, etc.


Jim Jarmusch, Woody Allen, especially his early, funny movies, Wes Anderson, I can go from the Apu Trilogy to Iron Man and back. As long as the story is solid.

Beastie Boys, Nick Cave, Rowland S. Howard, Barry Adamson, Tom Waits, K.D. Lang, Marianne Faithful, Einsturzende Neubauten, Slim Cessna's Auto Club, Munly and the Lee Lewis Harlots, 16HP, The Kinks, Redd Kross, Angels of Light, Swans and more.

British comedy like I'm Alan Partridge, The Mighty Boosh, Peep Show....those crazy Brits. Newsroom, Broad City, Louie.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Literature, nature, sweating in bars while a live band knocks me on my butt, talking to old people who have tons of experience and stories, cheese (is there a medical condition for loving cheese?).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When will this group meditation be done? I was zen like 20 minutes ago. Ohm.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Seeing a band, reading a book, drinking too much coffee, drinking too much whiskey.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You dig intelligence with a bit of deviance. If you want to grab a drink and just talk....I'm not going to assume it's a hookup.

Especially message me if you are also divorced or have long term relationship success. I consider divorce's all about trying.