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30 Oakland, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:59pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Not at all
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I am planning a big move from DC to Oakland. Hoping to make some new friends who can show me around.

Likes: Smashing capitalism. Having brainsex with people who are also into radical politics. People with something interesting to say. James Baldwin. Continued learning. Comedies and scary movies. Indian food. Other militant poor people.

Dislikes: Capitalism. The Dunning Kruger Effect. Western standards of beauty. Patriarchy. Racial caste systems. Systemic oppression. People who think "reverse racism" is a real thing. White people dreadlocks. Men's Rights Activists. Manarchists. Drones. The military industrial complex. The prison industrial complex. Police militarization. Conservative ideology. Voter apathy. Voter suppression. Guns. Ayn Rand. Segregation. Deportations. Assimilation. Cultural appropriation. Poverty. Internalized misogyny/homophobia.

As my name suggests... I am butch - female bodied/masculine of center presenting. I am a genderqueer trying to make it in the patriarchy. What is up w/the selections on here? I am very active in the queer community and love meeting people who can discuss gender and orientation issues without getting too uncomfortable.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a student (Political Science & Art). I love parties, potlucks, fundraisers, rallies, knitting circles, book clubs, concerts, parades, festivals, movie nights, debates, protests, etc. I am also making it a point to spoon as many people as I possibly can. Then make a world record for the longest chain of people spooning simultaneously.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being queer. Being kind. Detaching.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That they can't determine my gender - at least they are always half right. People say I have really feminine eyes. They also notice that I have a lot of energy and am very, very friendly. I will talk to just about anyone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: political theory, philosophy, history, non-fiction mostly.

Movies: Anything scary.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
  • 1. My friends (including those within my family)
  • 2. My family
  • 3. Access to a library
  • 4. Pants.
  • 5. Space
  • 6.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game. I over-analyze things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out somewhere in DC partying (alcohol free).
You should message me if
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You have an inkling of what genderqueer might mean. If you like talking about politics.

I took this test and the results were pretty dead on, so I am posting them here:

Your type is known as the Champion type, which is part of the larger group called idealists. Nothing occurs that does not have some deep and ethical significance in your eyes. You see life as an exciting drama. You are very charismatic, yet tend to be too harsh on yourself for not being as genuine as you think you should be. 3% of the population shares your type.
As a romantic partner, you need to talk about what is going on in your life. You are a strong supporter for your partner's efforts to grow and change and be happy. You need to feel that same support from your partner. Expressive, optimistic, and curious, you are eager to enjoy new experiences with your partner, whom you wish to be your confidant and soul mate, as well as play mate. You are uncomfortable sharing negative emotion, though, and tend to withdraw from confrontation and process your feelings privately. You feel most loved when your partner appreciates your creativity, accepts your uniqueness, and sees you as the compassionate person you are. You need to hear your partner tell you how much you mean to them and would love if they did thoughtful spontaneous things to demonstrate it.
Your group summary: idealists (NF)
Your type summary: ENFP