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49 / M / Straight / Single

Vincentown, New Jersey

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Russian (Okay), Portuguese (Poorly), German (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
...To see a world in a grain of sand
And a heaven in a wild flower,
Hold infinity in the palm of your hand,
And eternity in an hour...

Sincere, faithful, kind, gentle and charming are the words that spring to mind. I am a natural born leader, explorer and teacher. I have been called a gentleman, shining knight, angel and renaissance man numerous times in past, but will not bestow those titles upon myself. Though I will bestow the title of hopeless romantic.
I love learning and always try to find time and space for researching things, places, subjects. I do not like to sit for long periods of time. Travel, nature, cultures, art, architecture, food and music are close to my heart. I am a geography buff and amateur naturalist, so you will find me on the road often to new places that have intriguing natural environments to explore. Prefer to be close to the earth, but am at ease in social settings as well. I dress casual, but can easily convert to evening attire. I guess you can say I am well rounded, humble and worldly, and try to tread lightly in this life. Sustainable living is a focal point for me.

I grew up in an environmentalist family with a national forest as by backyard. Have attachment to being near water and avid sailor since age 8, but equally love mountains, forest and desert areas. Rarely watch television, and if do it will be primarily educational, PBS, TCM or Jon Stewart. You will never find me watching professional sports on TV, but perhaps the occasional luge, curling or x-country or sailing event. Enjoy day trips, sailing, hiking, exploring, camping, dining out, cooking, tennis, yoga, massages, libraries, flea markets, bookstores and more. Love visual arts, whether photography, artwork, sculpture, cinema ( almost exclusively classic,foreign, and documentaries ). Will be found reading reference books, technical manuals, how to, and travel, nature, environmental or history books 9 times out of 10. I try to lead a compassionate, conscientious, unobtrusive lifestyle. I do not aspire to fame, or need the latest "it" item. I appreciate the little rewards that life and the world present. I prefer face to face communication over telephone or other means.

Eclectic and varied interests in music. not withstanding rap, heavy metal or most country. 12 years as a vegetarian, but have recently fallen off the carrot cart, but working at getting back on. ( Hey, even the Dalai Lama isn't vegan or even vegetarian ). Still I prefer a diet heavy on the fruit and veggies, and love to experiment with new recipes in kitchen. Fond of Indian, Thai and Asian cuisines.

Some favorite travel spots. Crimea, Patagonia, San Francisco, Catalina Island, Stockholm, Cinqueterre, Juf, Palma de Mallorca, Copenhagen, Gimmelwald, Paris, Point Reyes, Acadia, Yosemite, Berlin, Antibes, Goa, Tuscany, Buenos Aires, Dharamsala, Joshua Tree, Stavanger, Vienna.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently living! ))) Love natural off-grid style organic sustainable lifestyle, and love sailing. Trying to decide how to incorporate both lifestyles into one life. Teach ESL in my spare time.
I’m really good at
Organizational and logistical tasks. Love gardening and projects that keep hands busy.

Oh...also giving massages and random acts of kindness.
The first things people usually notice about me
Height, eyes, quiet, calm, polite, good manners.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Technical books, non-fiction, how to's, reference, travel, language, culture, history, nature. Last reads...Permaculture, Cambridge Grammar of English, Learning Brazilian Portuguese, Fundraising Basics, Exotic Viral diseases, Colloquial Russian, Photovoltaics, Secrets of the Silk Road, Heavy Weather Sailing, Vegetarian Dishes of India, Dwell, Afar and Economist mags.
Classic and foreign movies.
BBC, NPR, XPN ( but rarely have TV or radio on )
Eclectic tastes in music. Anything but rap, heavy metal and most country. Currently into Deva Premal, Wonderband and Ananda Giri to name a few.
Love Thai, Indian and Asian cuisines. Fruits and Veggies!
Also nature walks, sitting by fireplace, botanical gardens, wasabi peas, yoga, bonsai, sushi, moonlight, female singer songwriters, saunas, sea breeze, sculpting and painting, Scrabble and NYT crosswords.
The six things I could never do without
Sunglasses, Swiss army knife, sex, sailing, sun, fruit.... Air was a close toss up for sixth item.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, world, ethics, cultures, nature, philosophy, languages, sex and travel. Also buying liveaboard yacht and circumnavigating. Mostly the latter two.

Why Ok Cupid needs to designate how people reply??? If the message is not degrading, obscene or sexual and the person took interest in you, you can not find a second of your life to give a simple reply? Actually they do me a favor. If these people can not find the decency to reply, then they probably are not a suitable match either. But it still makes me wonder where these people were brought up.
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing with old movie or reading, sailing until sunset, or dining out.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 33–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
-if you find me interesting and are a SINCERE, honest, respectful and open-minded individual and actually want to meet not just window shop.
-if you do not use the word hate. I highly dislike it's use and implications and have omitted it from my vocabulary for decades.
-if you love nature, sailing, sustainable living, or Buddhism. ( at least we can chat if nothing else )
...or if you find this hilarious as I do and can not read without getting uncontrollable belly laughs...
http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sea/2597736393.html

And if you are incapable of common courtesy, decency and respect of your fellow human, please do not contact me. Sorry for ending on a negative note, but seems like too many people have lost or not been taught simple common courtesy and it irks my inner nature.