I'm not the type to take advantage of anyone and I expect the same respectful quality in my partner. I always give everyone a "fair shake". I don't hold grudges and hate drama. What a waste of time and energy. I own my own small business and manage a second. Not really into the club scene either, but do enjoy playing pool or going out dancing on occasion. Just don't like them for the "pick up" factor of it. Not my style and besides, I have way too much pride in myself for that.
I'm divorced, story told upon request. Not bitter about it. It is what it is. I'm blessed with 2 beautiful children who are 5. Yes, for those of you who are slows, that means twins. One boy and one girl. They are my heart and soul! I'm not looking for a daddy for them, they have one. He's an important, necessary and valued aspect of their lives. But anyone that comes into their lives, must accept them with open arms and heart.
Just as we would do if you had children also.