I'm not *totally* closed to the possibility of a new relationship, mind, but I'm feeling a bit polysaturated at the moment, so it'd have to be one hell of an unusual person. I am, however, always open to new friendships.
I am part mad scientist (well, mad engineer, technically) and part gonzo journalist. I wear bunny ears in public. I live in Portland, OR.
I am coauthor of the polyamory book More Than Two: http://amzn.to/1eFPLeZ and author of The Game Changer: http://amzn.to/1HmAqeL. I recently finished a US book tour and will be doing a European book tour starting October 2015, speaking and holding classes in polyamory relationship skills and ethics.
I have quite a number of other projects I work on: I'm the author of a very popular Web site on polyamory and another on BDSM; I write tutorials on BDSM and kinky sex; I speak at poly and BDSM functions. I have just co-founded a new company that makes ultra-high-tech sex toys.
I blog. A lot. About everything from the questionable psychological issues of Peter the Great to evaluating science "news" stories in mainstream press to computer security to building brainwave-controlled vibrators to the Kurgan incursions against Canada's floating cloud-cities. I'm the creator of the Map of Human Sexuality that's been blogged about all over the place.
I'm interested in cyberpunk, photography, computers, electronics, art, nanotechnology, literature, radical life extension, and various other miscellaneous geekery. I spin fire, play World of Warcraft, and write erotica. I design and build high-tech sex toys, and write computer games. I'm also planning to take over the world and rule you all with an iron fist, but that's more of a long-term project. I have an irresistible affinity for small remote-controlled toy aircraft.
If there's anything else you want to know, I have a huge Web site at www.xeromag.com and a blog at tacit.livejournal.com that has more information than you can shake a stick at.
I am polyamorous, kinky, and transhumanist