I'm not *totally* closed to the possibility of a new relationship, mind, but I'm feeling a bit polysaturated at the moment, so it'd have to be one hell of an unusual person. I am, however, always open to new friendships.
Now that that's out of the way...what else to say about me? Hmm. Okay: Let's start with the fact that I'm pierced, tattooed, kinky, and polyamorous. I am part mad scientist (well, mad engineer, technically) and part gonzo journalist. I am living in Portland, OR.
I have just I finished a very large book on polyamory called More Than Two with my partner Eve Rickert. It's available for preorder on Amazon at http://amzn.to/1eFPLeZ and will be in bookstores on September 2, 2014. We will be touring extensively speaking and holding classes in polyamory relationship skills and ethics this fall.
I have quite a number of other projects I work on: I'm the author of a very popular Web site on polyamory and another on BDSM; I write tutorials on BDSM and kinky sex; I speak at poly and BDSM functions.
I blog. A lot. About everything from the questionable psychological issues of Peter the Great to evaluating science "news" stories in mainstream press to computer security to building brainwave-controlled vibrators to the Kurgan incursions against Canada's floating cloud-cities. I'm the creator of the Map of Human Sexuality that's been blogged about all over the place.
I'm interested in cyberpunk, photography, computers, electronics, art, nanotechnology, literature, radical life extension, and various other miscellaneous geekery. I spin fire, play World of Warcraft, and write erotica. I design and build high-tech sex toys, and write computer games. I'm also planning to take over the world and rule you all with an iron fist, but that's more of a long-term project. I have an irresistible affinity for small remote-controlled toy aircraft.
If there's anything else you want to know, I have a huge Web site at www.xeromag.com and a blog at tacit.livejournal.com that has more information than you can shake a stick at.
I am polyamorous, kinky, and transhumanist