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tadalaaa

21 / M / gay / Single

Iselin, New Jersey

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am funny, outgoing, and spontanious.

My Self-Summary

My name is Barry, and I am currently 21 years old living in Iselin, NJ. I am going to school to become an elementary school teacher. I will be receiving my Associate's degree soon, and I'll become a substitute teacher. I'm very out-going and open to anything really. I'm into poker, movies, music, and I'm pretty much open for anything. I'm looking for a guy that has a great sense of humor, good personality, romantic, trustworthy, loyal, and somebody that would make a good friend. I'd like my relationship to be special, someone who not only I could call my boyfriend, but also my best friend too. When people see me, they'll assume I'm feminine because I wear makeup occasionally, but honestly, I'd consider myself to be more masculine. In a guy, I would like him to be masculine or more in the middle. I like feminine guys as friends, but I can't see myself being with one. I suppose I can be considered a bit more "straight-acting" than others. I try to stay as positive as I possibly can, because I only get one shot at life, and I don't want to be living it being depressed. So far, I have yet to find anyone to make me the happy person I know I can be, so here I am trying out online dating. I have never tried this before and never suspected myself to actually do it, but like I said, I'm open for anything.

When I was in high school, I was given the nickname "Mr. Fabulous." It was given to me because I was the only openly gay guy in the school, and I never cared what people thought of me. I am not afraid to be bullied around, or deal with people's negative comments. I gained a lot of respect that way, and I would really like my guy to also be open with hisself and not let people get to him. You control yourself, nobody else. You only have one life to live, and you should live it to the fullest. Do what makes you happy, and screw everybody else, lol.

My favorite types of music vary a lot. I'll listen to just about anything. I'm not big on rap and country, but there's some I do like. As far as TV goes, I like WWE, Queer as Folk, CSI, Family Guy, Friends, Will and Grace, Two and a Half Men, South Park, World Series of Poker, and anything else really. I'm open to anything really. As far as foods go, I like mostly italian food. My favorite is spaghetti and baked ziti.

I currently work at a gym working in the daycare. Yes, I get to watch everyone's children while they work out. It's not so bad, but it looks great for my resume to become a teacher. I also work at a Haagen-Dazs on the weekends serving ice cream.

When I'm off of work, I usually try finding time to spend with my friends. We'll try going to the movies, bowling, mini golf, playing poker, or just hanging out. I grew up watching wrestling, and still watch it today. I occasionally get to go see it when they're in the area and if I can get tickets. Although it's stupid, it would be fun to meet a guy who liked it or is open to watching it sometimes. I'll probably try to get you to come with me sometime, haha. Hey, it could happen. You can be the awkward guy who sits in the crowd of screaming fans not knowing what's going on, haha.

I'm looking for somebody who will be there for me when times get bad. I want somebody who will love and cherish every monent we spend together, even while we sleep. I think finding somebody like that is the most important thing in the world to me, because how am I supposed to be happy, if I'm not truly happy with what I have? I'll be happy if I find somebody loyal, trustworthy, somebody who cares for me and would put me before themselves (some of the times), and treat me special. I don't want to be just some random boyfriend that somebody could have. I want to be the guy that you would love bringing home to meet your parents and have a nice dinner together.

I feel like I'm writing too much now haha, so I'll make this short. Basically I am a very fun-loving guy, somebody you'd like to bring home to meet your parents, and have a good time with. I am NOT looking for sex; I am looking for love and only love. Sex will come later down the road when the time is right. If you have any questions for me, I guess you could message me on here if you'd like. Hope you're satisfied with me =]

Here's some random facts from my myspace page:

~My name is Barry.
~I am 21 years old.
~I am gay.
~I am a transsexual, meaning within the next 10 years, I am getting a sex change to become a woman.
~I am single and looking for the right guy.
~I attend Middlesex County College, majoring in education. I want to either teach elementary or high school.
~I live in Iselin, NJ and grew up here my entire life.
~I drive a 2007 PT Cruiser Convertible.
~I have two beautiful puppies, Delyla and Charlie.
~I'll listen to anything except rap, metal, and most country.
~I love movies. My favorites are Titanic and A League of their Own.
~I hate bugs. If they come near me, I'll literally jump up and freak out.
~Dont preach to me.
~I like wrestling.
~Sleep is the most important thing to me; family and friends are after.
~My favorite movies of all time are Titanic and A League Of Their Own.
~I don't eat any fruit.
~I am ticklish.
~I like to curse, so fucking deal with it.
~I love my friends.
~I love when people scratch my head.

What I’m doing with my life

I want to be an elementary school teacher, so I'm currently in college working up to my Master's Degree.

I’m really good at

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes, my height (6 feet), my butt lol idk

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I listen to all types of music except rap and most country. Movies I'm open for anything really.

The six things I could never do without

Air
Water
Shelter
Food
Computer
TV

who cares? lol

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The future love of my life, and when I will find him

On a typical Friday night I am

Either out with my friends, or home usually.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I've never kissed a guy yet. I've been saving that for somebody special, whom I have yet to meet.

You should message me if

You're a nice guy who is not looking for a hook-up, rather something special. I'm looking for love, and if you don't want it, don't come knocking at my door lol