We're looking forward to being in the city and meeting more people!!! :)
I moved to San Antonio in June of 2012 after living 29.5 years in the Chicago, IL area.
My motto for life:
"Anything is possible!"
I have an MSW and very passionate about helping those in need. I am a practicing pagan and it is important for me to connect with others who at least are open to other non-traditional belief systems. I feel we can learn much from each other.
As far as my personality goes, it's very difficult to sum it up here. I am a very multi-faceted person. I'm not sure if any one label would ever fit me. I like to go an play in the dirt and with bugs (yes I like bugs!) and climb trees just as much as I like to get really gussied up and go out to a fancy-schmansy restaurant. I like to be outside and active and exercising just as much as I like to stay home and be curled up with a good book or watching the boob-tube. I have a bit of-- tomboy, goth, corporate conservative, kinkster, nerd, geek, femme, laid-back, free-spirit, artsy fartsy, detail-oriented, tattoo-loving, minimalist--I've got a bit of everything.
I recently married Hittori. We have an amazing, loving, fun, honest and open poly marriage. He's truly a gem of a man among rocks! :) I love him so very much. He's a wonderful primary partner!
Ladies, he's quite available! ;) I really miss the company of women (physical and emotional). I am just starting to date men again on a very selective basis. We are polyamorous. Hubby knows about this profile and relationships I have. I insist on full disclosure and I would like everyone to meet. Ideally, I'm looking for someone with whom I can have a deep and meaningful connection with. I want to be your friend as much as your lover. That being said, I'm approaching poly dating with an open mind and a open heart. I'm so down with meeting new people, goin' with the flow and seeing where things end up. I am not however looking for a quick tumble in the sheets. I am sex-positive and while I'm not against one-nighters, I'm ultimately looking for relationships with substance and real connections.
I identify as queer, not bisexual. OKC unfortunately doesn't have that as an option. *shakes fist in air in frustration*
*I envision poly relationships to be like a kid playing with a chemistry set...sometimes shit will explode but more often than not, something really cool will happen! :)*
I am not perfect, but I strive for self-improvement on a daily basis. Each day is an opportunity and a chance to do something meaningful and fulfilling for yourself and others around you. There is always something one can do to improve themselves and reach for their dreams.
I also love animals of all species. I enjoy a good cuddle and a good laugh. My humor ranges from the very intelligent to watching "World's Dumbest".
I highly value respect open, honest AND reliable communication. I have very little tolerance for people who do not also have this same respect for me. My time ( as well as your time) is too precious to be wasted.
I tend to be introverted and appear shy at first, but I do enjoy meeting new people, making new friends and dating awesome people.
I am quirky, dedicated, and loving life!