Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I run a discussion group for all non mongamous people. We have been
meeting and gathering for 3 years now and have established a
diverse and well rounded group. If you are experienced or new to
the lifestyle and want to come to learn contact me and I can get
you some information. This is not a hook up group just a place to
share and learn.
I seek people that are open to the possibility of a connection. I
do not like limits or defined relationships. If you have already
labeled what I can or can not be to you just move on, I am not into
that. I want things to evolve naturally into whatever they wish to
There are very few things I value higher then happiness and love. I
am a passionate person in everything I do, and I have never been
one to only put part of myself into something; it is all or
nothing. And maybe that is why poly works so well for me, I have
the capacity and the need to be with each person 100%.
I am a marriage of logic and creativity, spontaneity and planning,
giving and independence. I am not afraid to speak my mind, or be
brutally honest. I like to think I am witty and funny and most
people think I am "real" (whatever that means). I say what I am
thinking and sometimes it can come out a little tactless. I am
extremely sarcastic. But I am also a compassionate person and if I
care about you there is nothing I wouldn't do for you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I hate these questions, but fine I suppose I should have a
personality on this thing. I am happily married with 2 dogs. I am
involved in the poly and kink community. I work hard to to be a
pillar of leadership in both. I balance a job and school, like some
sort of responsible adult
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, I love to cook, and not in the "Woman! Get back in the
kitchen and make me a pie" type of way. I like to experiment with
recipes. I would say we are very epicurean, we enjoy
I am good with people, they find me fun and charming. I am outgoing
and easy to talk to. I am told "I speak guy very well". I don't
believe in playing games, or having drama in my life. But
technically in the end I am an introvert.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My Freckles and my red hair...
And I am told I have pretty eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like to read, and enjoy all types of books, being smart is
important to me. I value people who can carry on an
conversation. I find the marriage of science and art
How paint works, dye, etc. If there is a chemical process
something I probably know a little something about it.
I like funny movies and shows. Not a huge fan of romantic
I have never even seen The Notebook and I have no desire to.
I love live theatre, to me its better then any tv show or
The emotional arch that an audience can feel during a play is
a communion for the soul.
I listen to punk, and alternative, nothing to heavy, and if I
understand the lyrics I usually don't like it
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My sense of humor
The internet (yes its shallow but whatever)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What poly means to me, (if you made it this far, good job, this may
be the breaking point though). To me, poly is about meeting and
making new connections. Love is infinite and sharing it with others
only causes it to grow. I don't like to put limits on
relationships, I want them to evolve naturally, into whatever they
want to be. I don't do one night stands or emotionless sex (not
saying love has to be the emotion, I just need some sort of
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out, usually a party, event or a date
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I met my husband on okcupid many years ago, it seemed to work out
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are smart, poly, kinky, artsy or think we are a great
Please DO NOT send a message to me if you can't be bothered to
actually write a real message that I can respond to. "Hey how are
you?" is not really a conversation starter. I do small talk all day
every day at work I would rather just get to the meat of it. Man
up, have some balls, send me a message that compels me to reply.
And please don't message me for sex.
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