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38 M Costa Mesa, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:38pm
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English, Chinese (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Hi. I'm Alex.

I am looking for friends, someone to date and maybe lead to a relationship if it works out that way.

I don't want to waste your time or mine. If you want to go back and forth online messaging and never meet in person, we probably aren't a fit. Chemistry is important. It's not going to happen from behind a computer screen.

I'm not perfect. I'm pretty sure you aren't. I don't expect you to agree with everything I believe, say, or do, but it goes both ways.

It's taken me a while to figure out who I am and what I want. I hope you're up for the adventure. Or challenge.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm an entrepreneur.
I’m really good at
Trying to figure things out.
The first things people usually notice about me
I look younger than my age. It's an Asian thing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Kiyosaki, Trump, business biographies, Tim Keller, Rick Warren, Cloud and Townsend, English lit. Classic lit, the kind you were supposed to read in school but bought the Cliff's Notes instead.

Movies: I don't watch movies often. Docs, indies, film festivals are where I've spent my time when in a dark theatre. Some of my favorite studio films are The Usual Suspects, Gosford Park, any Disney / Pixar Animation, anything directed / produced by Hayao Miyazaki / Studio Ghibli, Kurosawa, and there's more I can't think of.

Music: I listen to just about everything. Never got into country or folk music.

Shows: I like procedure shows. Leverage, Hustle, Suits, White Collar. Reality shows like Amazing Race. Anthony Bourdain, strictly for his commentary. Iron and Top Chef. Daily Show and Colbert. Shark Tank.

Food: I'm Taiwanese. I will eat or try anything at least once. I don't waste anything. It's how I grew up (while living in the US). I don't consider myself a foodie. I grew up eating all kinds of stuff that have now become overpriced ingredients. If you don't like eating certain things, I will probably cook it up differently and make you try it.
I try to avoid eating out when possible, and I've cut back on eating meat and large portions. I have vegetarian meals regularly to stay healthy.
The six things I could never do without
I have my health. The questions here are ridiculous.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Retiring to some island in the tropics before I'm 50.
On a typical Friday night I am
Half my weeknights consist of networking and business meetings. Fridays I tend to stay in to recover.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I did have blonde hair at some point in my past. Hence the screen name.

Congrats if you read this far. There will be a quiz later.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you want to meet. I'm open to meeting new people.