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28 M New York, NY

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White, Other
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
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Mostly anything
When drinking
Working on university
Sales / Marketing
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Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Swedish

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My self-summary
I was born in the Village, but raised in a few different places. Most notably Sweden, Africa (mostly Lesotho, Kenya and Tanzania), and New England.
On one side I'm half New York, upper class, Jewy/waspy-esque/uptight catholic, while the other side is pagan, Swedish, Potato farmer, Inuit, socialist, hippie.
I've been told on multiple occasions that my life is like a Wes Anderson movie (although that probably says more about the company I keep than it does about me.)

I've been using Manhattan as a home base again for the last six years or so. When I'm not having an awesome time living here I wonder if anywhere else will ever be stimulating enough in comparison.

Because of a multicultural upbringing I'm prone to over-thinking things. Although I'm very good at not letting thinking get in the way of my kicks.

My over-thinking combined with the luxury of growing up a little here and there has made me an egalitarian, feminist, economically left leaning, LGBT sympathizing, sex positive, queer theorizing, gender studying, atheist, anti-war, anti-fascist, anti-hate, pro choice etc etc etc.

Most importantly I try to treat people like they want to be treated without hurting anyone in the process.
What I’m doing with my life
Mostly I try to squeeze the most out of this short existence. That entails doing as many things as possible.

After realizing that I've been to over 50 countries I have decided to build myself something slightly permanent in the city. Something to come back to if I ever decide to go away again.
I’m really good at
Skills I have acquired by doing things:
I can ride a horse.
Last I checked I could hold my breath for over 3 minutes.
I can longboard and snowboard.
I can scuba dive.
I can lift heavy things.
I can give a good massage.
I can sleep anywhere, anytime.
I can find the clitoris AND the G-spot.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have no idea, and I like not to know. People usually surprise me with what they think about me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I consume a lot of media, be it in the form of books, movies or shows. I just think what we get from media is way to subjective to make lists about that matter as much as we would want them to. Some of the smartest people I know like the dumbest TV, and some of the worst assholes I've ever met read the best, kindest, most complicated books ever written.

Sure, I recognize that bonding over having similar taste is a thing, but taste doesn't really account for much more than taste. Besides, I'm too lazy to list all the things I like.

One exception; I have a very dear relation to the book The Little Prince.
The six things I could never do without
When I'm at home:
Clean clothes every day
My apartment/fortress of solitude.
my awesome/asshole friends and doing stuff with them.
My technology and it's connection to the hivemind/internet.
Kinky sweaty sex and post coital relaxing with snacks/movies.
Amusing ideas.

While I'm traveling:
Enough fabric to keep me warm.
My senses.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
That word I know but can't remember right now. Had a long war with the word catharsis where I kept remembering every week or so that there was a word I knew that I couldn't remember. But I beat it finally. Now I find myself saying catharsis at random times and feeling good about myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually taking it easy. I prefer to go out on weekdays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have morals but no shame.

I hate saying no.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
If you like doing things that make for good stories.