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28 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

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White, Other
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Working on university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Swedish

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My self-summary
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I was born in the Village, but raised in a few different places. Most notably Sweden, Africa (mostly Lesotho, Kenya and Tanzania), and New England.
On one side I'm half New York, upper class, Jewy/waspy-esque/uptight catholic, while the other side is pagan, Swedish, Potato farmer, Inuit, socialist, hippie.

I've been using Manhattan as a home base again for the last seven years or so. When I'm not having an awesome time living here I wonder if anywhere else will ever be stimulating enough in comparison.

Because I had the luxury of growing up with so many different perspectives I'm prone to over-thinking things. Although I'm very good at not letting thinking get in the way of my kicks.

I like to think that my over-thinking is what has made me an egalitarian, feminist, economically left leaning, LGBT sympathizing, sex positive, queer theorizing, gender studying, atheist, anti-war, anti-fascist, anti-hate, pro choice etc etc etc.

Most importantly I try to treat people like they want to be treated without hurting anyone in the process.
What I’m doing with my life
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Mostly I try to squeeze the most out of this short existence. That entails doing as many things as possible.

After realizing that I've been to over 50 countries I have decided to build myself something slightly permanent in the city. Something to come back to if I ever decide to go away again.

I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Skills I have acquired by doing things:
I can ride a horse.
Last I checked I could hold my breath for over 3 minutes.
I can longboard and snowboard.
I can scuba dive.
I can lift heavy things.
I can give a good massage.
I can sleep anywhere, anytime.
I am very good at asking people how they like to be treated and then treating them that way (yes, this is a reference to sex).
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have no idea, and I like not to know. People usually surprise me with what they think about me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I consume a lot of media, be it in the form of books, movies or shows. I just think what we get from media is way to subjective to make lists about that matter as much as we would want them to. Some of the smartest people I know like the dumbest TV, and some of the worst assholes I've ever met read the best, kindest, most complicated books ever written.

Sure, I recognize that bonding over having similar taste is a thing, but taste doesn't really account for much more than taste. Besides, I'm too lazy to list all the things I like.

One exception; I have a very dear relation to the book The Little Prince.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
When I'm at home:
Clean clothes every day
My apartment/fortress of solitude.
My awesome/asshole friends and doing stuff with them.
My technology and it's connection to the hivemind/internet.
Kinky, sweaty sex and post coital relaxing with snacks/movies.
Amusing ideas

While I'm traveling:
Enough fabric to keep me warm
My senses
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
That word I know but can't remember right now. Had a long war with the word catharsis where I kept remembering that there was a word I knew that I couldn't remember. After a few months I finally beat it, now I find myself saying catharsis at random times and feeling good about myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually taking it easy. If I go out I prefer to do it on weekdays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have morals but no shame.

I hate saying no.
You should message me if
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If you like doing things that make for good stories.