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takesbaths

28 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:56pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Working on university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Swedish

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My self-summary
I was born in the Village, but raised in a few different places. Most notably Sweden, Africa (mostly Lesotho, Kenya and Tanzania), and New England.
On one side I'm half New York, upper class, Jewy/waspy-esque/uptight catholic, while the other side is pagan, Swedish, Potato farmer, Inuit, socialist, hippie.
I've been told on multiple occasions that my life is like a Wes Anderson movie (although that probably says more about the company I keep than it does about me.)

I've been using Manhattan as a home base again for the last six years or so. When I'm not having an awesome time living here I wonder if anywhere else will ever be stimulating enough in comparison.

Because of a multicultural upbringing I'm prone to over-thinking things. Although I'm very good at not letting thinking get in the way of my kicks.

My over-thinking combined with the luxury of growing up a little here and there has made me an egalitarian, feminist, economically left leaning, LGBT sympathizing, sex positive, queer theorizing, gender studying, atheist, anti-war, anti-fascist, anti-hate, pro choice etc etc etc.

Most importantly I try to treat people like they want to be treated without hurting anyone in the process.
What I’m doing with my life
Mostly I try to squeeze the most out of this short existence. That entails doing as many things as possible.

After realizing that I've been to over 50 countries I have decided to build myself something slightly permanent in the city. Something to come back to if I ever decide to go away again.
I’m really good at
Skills I have acquired by doing things:
I can ride a horse.
Last I checked I could hold my breath for over 3 minutes.
I can longboard and snowboard.
I can scuba dive.
I can lift heavy things.
I can give a good massage.
I can sleep anywhere, anytime.
I can find the clitoris AND the G-spot.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have no idea, and I like not to know. People usually surprise me with what they think about me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I consume a lot of media, be it in the form of books, movies or shows. I just think what we get from media is way to subjective to make lists about that matter as much as we would want them to. Some of the smartest people I know like the dumbest TV, and some of the worst assholes I've ever met read the best, kindest, most complicated books ever written.

Sure, I recognize that bonding over having similar taste is a thing, but taste doesn't really account for much more than taste. Besides, I'm too lazy to list all the things I like.

One exception; I have a very dear relation to the book The Little Prince.
The six things I could never do without
When I'm at home:
Clean clothes every day
My apartment/fortress of solitude.
my awesome/asshole friends and doing stuff with them.
My technology and it's connection to the hivemind/internet.
Kinky sweaty sex and post coital relaxing with snacks/movies.
Amusing ideas.

While I'm traveling:
Passport.
food.
Enough fabric to keep me warm.
My senses.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
That word I know but can't remember right now. Had a long war with the word catharsis where I kept remembering every week or so that there was a word I knew that I couldn't remember. But I beat it finally. Now I find myself saying catharsis at random times and feeling good about myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually taking it easy. I prefer to go out on weekdays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have morals but no shame.

I hate saying no.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
If you like doing things that make for good stories.