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52 Alameda, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 42–51
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:37am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid
My self-summary
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I'm a successful copywriter, moved here from Boston in 2011. If I had to describe myself, and evidently I do, first would be "funny" (I used to work for Hallmark writing humor cards). Then again most guys think they’re a lot funnier than they really are, so take it with a grain of salt. I believe I’m intelligent. Women tell me I’m nice-looking, and some of them aren't even drunk at the time (although my eyes do get squinchy when I smile). I’m definitely a good listener, very into other people and their lives--not one of these guys who adores the sound of his own voice. I can be a smart mouth for sure, but not to hurt or spite. I try not to talk about people behind their backs, and when I do I always feel crappy afterwards. Basically I’m a big-hearted guy looking for a best friend and lifetime love. How awesome if she were you!

Speaking of you: You’re a sweetheart, but also very witty, or cool, or whatever describes that quality that makes you great to talk to and laugh with. People like you. You’re attractive and bear more than a passing resemblance to your photo. You listen well and aren't your own favorite topic (that's an absolute deal-breaker). You’re smart. You can get through an entire sentence without saying the word "like" (no offense, but it drives me a little crazy, like I'm dating a tweener). You’re self-aware and connected to your inner life. You’re liberal, compassionate toward people in pain or need, seeking peace with yourself and the world. Last thing: Your kisses melt.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working. Parenting. Trying to remember what it's like kissing a female who isn't wearing pink jeggings and an Elmo onesie.
I’m really good at
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Writing, I guess.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can be a better dad to my daughter. How the hell to make new friends (let alone date) when you're the single parent of a toddler.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I won a journalism award in college for an article I mostly plagiarized.
You should message me if
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Amazingly, some people are missing it, so I should be clear: I am a single father raising a young daughter on my own. Something to keep in mind when deciding whether to write me.