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46 San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Relationship Type
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I grew up partly in Asia and partly in North America and like others who appreciate differences. Professionally I am serious and ambitious but personally I am much more laid back and am very considerate, respectful and at times goofy. Don't always take myself too seriously. Would love to meet others who are open minded, fun and have a positive outlook on life.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am pretty settled professionally and recently have begun trying to balance my personal life with work...taking baby far so good.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing at myself
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a very distinctive laugh and people always notice. It's distinctive in a good way! REALLY!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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In terms of books, I generally prefer fiction. Love magical realism like "One Hundred Years of Solitude," "Like Water for Chocolate." I also like "The Little Prince." Also love books with humor like anything by Sedaris.

Musicwise, I like classical, Brahms, Bach, Mahler, Shostakovich, Prokofiev, Schubert, Rachmaninov, Tchaikovsky, just to name a few of my favorite composers.

Movies--Legally Blonde, the Pillow Book, the Labyrinth, Eat Drink Man Woman, Brokeback Mountain, Lust Caution, Amelie, Babette's Feast and many more...

Food, I love food, can't narrow it down. Very advanturous with food and love trying new things.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Company of good people
2. Good food
3. My cello
4. Computer or any electronic device that allows me to connect to the world
5. A Comfortable bed
6. NPR
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I am going to retire!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably meeting up with friends for dinner and drinks or a concert.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Hey! It's private.
You should message me if
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You are looking to make a meaningful connection, emotionally open, secure, respectful and kind.