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40 M Auckland, New Zealand

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  • Ages 28–42
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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
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Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
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English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm a music loving, somewhat jaded christian software developer.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
At times I feel like I'm not doing much at all, that I'm not making a difference, and then out of the blue, every so often you get an email or meet someone who tells how you're shaping their own life and growth - that's scary...

I'm a software developer by trade, and also by habit. As well as my projects for work I'm involved in open source development, the production of several technical podcasts/internet radio shows, and (haphazardly) run a local user group.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening - so much so that I often don't get a word in myself!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My beard - it's often a longish scraggly thing that trims down every one in a while... I like it longer as I can play with it when thinking ;p
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My top albums of 2011:

A large eclectic selection of music - my "top five" artists include Dream Theater, Symphony X, Porcupine Tree, The Flower Kings and Ozric Tentacles but I swing thru a variety of rock, heavy metal, industrial, jazz and blues.

Some top artists of the year include Allegeon, Anathema, Audrey Horne, Blind Guardian, The Choir, Daath, Death Angel, Demon Hunter, Exodus, Fear Factory, Gamma Ray, Iron Maiden, Kaipa, Nevermore, Tryptykon, Vanden Plas, and many others you've likely not heard of :)

Books.... the Bible, The Saga of the Seven Suns, Magician, The Raw Shark Texts, Interview with the Vampire. I love books and reading, but am a terribly slow reader...

Authors - Steven King, Stephen Lawhead, Clive Barker, Richard Morgan, Arthur C. Clarke, Kevin J. Anderson, Tad Williams, Anne Rice, Natsuo Kirino.

Indian hot chicken saagwalla...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My laptop, my Android, my headphones, my Kindle, my sanity, and my self respect.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Software development, open source, music, and whether I locked the car or not..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...either home letting my brain settle and stop thinking after a week of IT/computers, relaxing with newly downloaded TV. Or I'm out playing pool, watching movies, or seeing a band. What's mostly typical is that my plans are able to change on a whim.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I used to own Bros on cassette :)
You should message me if
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You enjoy live bands, discovering new music, enjoy movies, or generally at a loose end and want some company..