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53 M Hayward, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:56pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am a romantic. I like holding hands, kissing, cuddling. I am an honest, open, trustworthy, nice guy. I am of a liberal bent. I am not a religious, spiritual man. Some say my humor is a little quirky, a little dry (too much British humor over the years). I find humor in what people say, what I see.

I am a little bit of a science nerd. I sometimes have a child like sense of curiosity. (Sorry if this reads like a bullet list, trying to keep it short and straight forward)

I enjoy walking on a beach, exploring a narrow trail, strolling through an art museum, digging in the dirt. I enjoy a nice bottle of wine (though I probably couldn't tell the difference between a $15 and a $50 bottle of wine). I occasionally crochet and write poetry when the muse whispers.

I am a compassionate friend, a passionate, giving lover, an intimate companion, and a good conversationalist. I am here looking for someone to share with, for the long term, the things I like and they like and the new things we find on the way.
What I’m doing with my life
What I am doing with my life? Trying to get ahead in these difficult economic times. I have no grand, overarching, dramatic goals.
I’m really good at
I have been told I am an eloquent writer, and I am a real good guy. I crochet well, well the simple stuff anyway. I have a decent green thumb.
The first things people usually notice about me
I think it's my height. But I really don't know. I generally don't ask that question when I meet someone for the first time. The first thing I notice about a woman is her hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anything written by William Gibson, sci-fi books and movies; romantic comedies (my favorite is 50 First Dates); TV shows: Game of Thrones, Big Bang Theory, Grey's Anatomy, crime dramas. Music: mostly rock for the 60's, new wave, alternative; blues: Stevie Ray Vaughan; classical: Mozart, Chopin, Schubert, Debussy; and modern Jazz (Brubeck), but listen to a wide variety of music (except Rap, country, opera).
The six things I could never do without
The ability to sense my world (hearing, sight, etc.), parks and gardens, books (or their technological equivalent), my ability to write, my kids, curiosity.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend time thinking about my kids, more worrying than thinking actually. I spend a lot of time thinking about a lot of things. I generally don't sit around and contemplate my navel
On a typical Friday night I am
Right now I am generally home, relaxing, occasionally at friends. I am not a real big bar/club person. But karaoke occasionally is fun!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Most of what is most private about me, is shared with a select few, not for general consumption here.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 45–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You see something that interests you about me.