plays sports. Mainly I am just looking for an intelligent, independent woman who is confident and speaks her mind; I find that attractive. I also find I am drawn to athletes as much for the personality as for the physical attributes it maintains. Oh and I am a non-smoker and smoking is a kind of a deal breaker with me for anything long term.
Ok, new pet peeve. Reading through this site I see all these people who say they care if someone who messages them knows the difference between they're, their, and there. I don't! Actually, I may care that, if asked to think about it, you are smart enough to come up with the right answer, but if thinking or typing fast or just carelessly you put down the wrong one, I will not judge you. I save my judgment for those bad at math.
I prefer to IM instead of messages if I am online.