Healthy, enthusiastic, empirical, content, joyous, agnostic, sensual Boulder liberal cyclist and golfer. Whew. Currently Strong and Single, Phase 3. Looking for a committed, sexually exclusive relationship. Which leaves plenty of room for loving friends and family. Younger in body and spirit than my age indicates (says every oldster on every dating site ever). I'm 28 in my head, so I avoid mirrors to prevent confusion. I've learned more about loving and being loved in the past few years than in any time in my life. So if you're not growing, keep going!
What I’m doing with my life
Working and volunteering in the bike industry, enjoying all the artistic and cultural and intellectual delights of Boulder/Denver. Loving on friends and family, parenting my kids (24, 22) from a mutual-adult perspective. Hoping to travel more. Much more.
I’m really good at
Communicating and connecting with people on an emotionally intimate
level. Cooking with passion and eating with gusto. Helping people
find bikes and enjoy cycling. Making love with women I love. Being
a leader in my industry. Being smart (MENSA member) without a
college education. Continuing to learn and grow.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm way tall. Seeking same. If you're shorter than 5'7", call me a
height-ist if you will, I'm sure you're a very nice person, and I'm
not interested in dating you. My loss, I'm sure!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Non-fiction, biographies, scientific, Carl Sagan, Leonard
Schlain, Michael Schermer. Currently reading Michael Pollan's
Cooked, Al Gore's The Future, Jared Diamond's The World Until
Yesterday. Movies: Independent, dramatic, serious, exploring the
human condition. TV: MadMen, 30Rock (RIP), The Good Wife, sports.
Music: Pretty much anything, even a little hip-hop now and then,
love concerts and festivals. Food: Yes. No dilemma for this
omnivore. Fresh eggs from our backyard chickens. Let me make you a
The six things I could never do without
Intimate connection to my fellow humans. My bikes. Great food and
wine and beer. My golf clubs. My relationships with my children. My
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Friends and family. My work (executive director of BPSA, the US
bike industry's trade association. President of Community Cycles in
Boulder. Contributing Editor to BRaIN, the bike industry's trade
mag and website). Finding a love relationship that's got both a mad
spark and a rational basis.
On a typical Friday night I am
Looking for a lover who won't blow my cover.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
On a dating site? See above. In person with someone I care about?
No limits whatsoever.
You should message me if
All these words and pictures are appealing to you in some way. You
are a lovely, lanky, liberal, logical, local lass. You're more
science-oriented than religion-oriented. Whether we fit or not,
thanks for wading through all this, and good luck to you in Love