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52 M Washington, DC

My Details

Last Online
Apr 12
Black, Native American, White
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English, French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
DBM 52 wants to meet ethereal, poetic, open minded & hearted woman between 35 and 55 to follow our mutual bliss.

Looking for above all, fearlessness and emotional honesty and fairness.

Ladies on Social Me say this about me... stylish, cool,outgoing , troublemaker, spankable , you look famous wow handsome, funny, sexy smile, hot, pretty,sweet, sex panther!, cheeky, kissable lips, warm smile, quirky, cute, pretty eyes, awesome, great hairstyle, the epitome of manhood and smart. Draw your own conclusions, but either way be a grown woman about it.




I am creative, ambitious, and loving
What I’m doing with my life
Writing the sequel to a semiautobiographical, illustrated soundtracked electronic novel, Working a job that keeps myself and my cats Wendy and Lisa inside.
I’m really good at
Writing,my day job, Cooking, Photography, chilling out, making martinis .
The first things people usually notice about me
Jeez He's tall, he didn't SOUND black on the phone
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Atlas Shrugged, Breakfast of Champions, The Book of Exen by Barry Reese ( sorry had to toot my own horn! On second thought, I'm not sorry)

Music: The short list would run from ABC to ZZ Top. Bands I've seen live include the Who, the Rolling Stones,Alice Cooper, David Lee Roth, Sammy Hagar, Van Halen, Blondie, Jethro Tull, Pearl Jam,Kansas, Letters to Cleo, Timbuk 3, Garbage (If you are a Shirley Manson lookalike, you need to quit reading and get in touch NOW!! If you ARE Shirley, then marry me and I'll take this and any other dating site profile I have down and be everything you ever didn't know you wanted in a man!), Heart ( Sorry Nancy, I know I said the same thing about you I just said about Shirley when I was 15, but that big ex Marine working security when you came to the St. Louis Arena on the Dog & Butterfly tour wouldn't let me anywhere near the tour bus after all the guy band members had given me their autograph), Robert Palmer ( rest in peace with your sailing shoes on). Typical black guy move would be to say no country, but I like Chris Isaak, k.d. lang, and the twangier Brian Setzer, post Stray Cats stuff. Atypical black guy move says no thanks to hip hop, whatever happened to good old soul music, but Kanye and Ludacris actually do have a thing or several to say.

Movies: Star Wars would have been my favorite at 15, and the sequels were ok - saw each of them opening weekend in their respective years of release.

Currently - Siesta (Ellen Barkin, where have you gone? I always wanted to be Gabriel Byrne after seeing that) The Postman always Rings twice ( the 40's version, though Jessica Lange was very sexy in the '80s version), 300,Black Snake Moan, Sin City, Monster, Eyes Wide Shut, Body Heat, for starters...

Food: Nothing beats a good steak and baked potato, but Chinese, seafood, Italian are always gonna be good standbys. My doctor wants me to go on something called the paleolithic diet - if the cavemen didn't have it, we shouldn't eat it. I eat for taste. Life is short, and to be enjoyed.
The six things I could never do without
Other than the Maslow list? My cats Wendy and Lisa ( even if they can be destructive little pains in the ass ) Frostwire, family, friends, tantric meditiation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my family, my cats, money, the meaning of life, what's for dinner
On a typical Friday night I am
no such thing as a typical Friday night...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is you can ask me point blank about it face to face and I'll tell you and it'll stay private like that, 'k?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–57
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you are a real woman who doesn't play emotional games. you are Kate Beckinsale, Shirley Manson or Nancy Wilson from Heart