I'm 32 years old, bald head, blue eyes, a bit of a goatee. I'm 6'2", and generally a pretty big guy. I've been married to gunsandbombs for 6 years, and we have a open relationship. That means there's a lot of communication, and a lot of energy between my darling wife and myself. We're fun people, and want to fill our lives with people with similar desires.

My beliefs and faith has changed rather dramatically from my upbringing. I firmly believe in personal rights and responsibility. I strongly want a smaller government, fewer laws, and more rights. I would have voted for Ron Paul in a heartbeat. I consider myself an atheist, and a skeptic.

Enjoying it! That's my #1 priority these days. I'm also working very hard, so I have to have a really good time to offset my hard work.

I've taken glass blowing classes, and I love blowing glass! I drove my buddies Mustang on Infineon Raceway (In Sonoma, CA) over the 4th of July and it was so much fun!! It's given me some desire to have a race car. We'll see about working on that in 2010.

I broke my big toe (double fracture), so I'm in a walking boot for the 6 weeks ending at the end of December.

Computers. I taught myself computers when I was young, and now earn a living with my self taught skills.

Cooking. I've won our office chili cook-off two years in a row, though I came in 3rd place this year. I still hold the most wins in our office.

Cuddling. I'm an accomplished cuddler.

Driving. I've spent a fair bit of time behind the wheel on race tracks in the Great Lakes region. Don't be confused with ovals, or drag strips, I'm talking about race tracks with left AND right turns, and hills!

Conversation. I'm well spoken, and a good listener. I'm able to converse with nearly anyone, about a wide range of topics.

Travel. I've done a bit of travel, and find that I adapt to new places pretty well. I enjoy exploring and figuring a new place out. Trips in the car are my preference. I believe the journey is as interesting as the destination.

Humor. If I don't make you laugh, I'll give you your money back!

Gardening. We had a beautiful garden in 2008, and a passable garden in 2009. It was just a weird growing season in 2009. Maybe 2010 will be better! Every year I learn more about gardening.

Most people first notice that they have to look up to look me in the eye. Once they make eye contact with me though, they notice my blue eyes. After that, it's probably my silly laugh.

I've been watching Top Gear, which I love. I'm also hooked on Good Eats. Not just watching Good Eats, but I love trying recipes from the show! I also enjoy ted.com.

I haven't spent much time watching movies lately, but The Dark Knight was amazing.

I love food! I'm a self confessed foodie. I love trying new food, and trying new recipes, and good ingredients! Most recently I've been experimenting with Artisan Bread in Five Minutes a Day.

I'm a big fan of Zingerman's Roadhouse! YUM!

My wife.

My pressure cooker.

My pocket knife.

My towel.

My computer.

My phone.

I spend a lot of cycles thinking about my job. I'm working pretty hard to find a balance of work and having a life. If I'm honest, I would say that having a life is suffering to work at this point. That's one of the big reasons I'm on okcupid!

On an typical Friday night, I could be hanging out by a fire in our firepit, or going out for a nice dinner, or chilling at home. No matter what, I'm looking for a good time on Friday night!

I tested as many brands of personal lubricant as I could find, and selected a clear winner.

Message me no matter what! What do you have to lose? Words are cheap! I dare you!