***Photos updated...two new photos that are more current...yes i did gain weight with my last son :( but it is still me and i am real not fake***
*****I am gonna put this up here because it seems like people aren't reading it at the bottom or in my profile...I am not trying to be mean or offend anyone so I am sorry...but I am not attracted to short guys...PLEASE ONLY GUYS THAT ARE 5'10 AND TALLER and GUYS THAT ARE OLDER THEN ME*****
I am a 32 year old white female with 4 kids...yes i did say 4...lol...i have 3 handsome little boys and 1 beautiful little girl...my kids are 9, 10, 2 yrs old and I have a 10 month old baby. I AM NOT IN ANYWAY LOOKING FOR A FATHER FOR THEM JUST TO MAKE THAT CLEAR UP FRONT! I am more of a home body; I am not much of a party girl, I am not into clubs, I do not smoke or do drugs and I do not drink a lot, but will occasionally have a few drinks. If you are big into partying, clubs, or you do drugs DO NOT contact me! If you drink more than occasionally, if you smoke at all, or you are looking for sex DO NOT contact me! Even though I would say I am more of a homebody when I have time I do like to go out and have fun. I like bowling, watching a good movie (Just about anything except I am not a huge action movie fan), going for a walk outside, going out to dinner, chilling with friends and family, playing board games and cards at home, just relaxing at home with that special someone and cuddling up on the couch to a TV show, love local family events, carnivals, and festivals, and having a stimulating conversation...I love to listen to R&B and country music. I am not into rock and roll or a lot of rap or hard core stuff to where you can’t understand what they are saying.
As a woman I know what I want, need and expect out of a friendship, relationship and companionship. I do not feel it’s fair to set expectations for others; however in order to know what I want I have to have expectations. If you do not meet them that is just fine. I am not looking for someone to tell me how much they have or had, or think they can buy me…don’t need, don’t want it!!!
I am looking for a man who is humble. That is the most important quality that he must have. Other things include honesty, sincere, down to earth and laid back, loving, caring, gentle, kind, good hearted, go with the flow, a good listener, eye contact when speaking, dependability, maturity, self confidence, and RESPECT FOR WOMEN. I want someone who can give me good conversation and help me to excel in all aspects of my life. I mean mentally, spiritually, and emotionally. A guy that will put his family first and foremost above anyone and anything else, a guy that is all about his family and loves to come home to his family and kids every day after work and do the family stuff on the weekends, a guy that doesn’t have to have sex from his wife every night or he will get it somewhere else (so a guy that wont cheat) a guy that will sit down and watch a lifetime movie or a mushy movie with me just as easy as he will sit down and watch a hard core action movie, I want a guy that will hang in there when times get tough and not just walk away, a guy that can fight and give it his all, a guy that believes in the words or the wedding vows…for better or whose in sickness and in health…through good times and in bad…I want a guy that will stand behind those words no matter what…I want a guy that can communicate very well, a guy that is open and will not hide things…I do not like guys that are all big and buff and I do not like guys that are real thin. I am looking for the guy that is the in between average type, maybe a little more than average…like a few extra pounds would be nice...not a lot of extra pounds, but not too little as they say. So I guess you could say than my idea body type that I am looking for is a few extra pounds. I am not big on facial hair at all…I am also not into short guys…I would like a guy that is at the very least 5 10 but prefer the 6 foot and taller guy
As stated before…I have two kids and they are my first priority and they come first so the days I am available are limited. I am NOT interested in letting ANY guy around my kids unless it gets very very serious. So if you can’t handle that and understand that and that my kids come first and my time is very limited I am sorry but we are not a match than. On the days that I have them I would not be able to see you at all whether it be you coming over or going out with you or going to your place...it would be NOTHING!!!! But I also want it to be known… IF WE GET SERIOUS YOU CAN NOT HAVE ME WITHOUT THEM so I do want someone that wants kids and is ok with my kids and could love them just as much as he would love them if they were his own as me and my boys are a packed deal, but again they do not need a father as they already have one!
My goals in life are to make the best life I can for my kids. Most people may think I am boring and act old for my age, but I have kids and so you have to grow up alot when you have kids if you want to be a good parent...that is what I think at least and that is how I am...I am shy at first, but once I get to know you then you will regret you got to know me and wish that I would shut up...lol...my long term goals would be to go back to school and finish so I can get my degree and give more to my kids and show them that school and education are very important.
If you do email me on here and I don’t get back to you right away I am sorry, but I do not get on here a lot as I am busy with my kids most of the time so I’m sorry, but you will just have to wait!
*** YOU MUST BE AWARE OF: I WILL NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOU AFTER A WEEK, TWO WEEKS OR EVEN TWO MONTHS.***
Well hopefully this doesn’t scare anyone off, but this is who I am and what I am looking for. As I say that I also will tell you that there is no limit on love so if you don’t meet everything on my list, but are a good person I will give you a chance and I feel if we don’t work out than maybe we can at least be friends as you can never have too many friends…
***DO NOT CONTACT ME AT ALL NO MATTER WHAT IF…
• You do drugs
• Can’t handle the fact that I have kids
• If you smoke, party a lot, or are into clubs alot
• Drink more than occasionally,
• Are looking for sex
• Aren’t big into family
• No cheaters, no liars, no games, no drama
• Last, I am sorry, but I have never been attracted to short guys…so please only guys that are around 5’10 and up…and I don't want anyone that is younger...please 30-45 only...please guys don’t be offended at this!