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tamtam4us

45 / F / Straight / Single

Boynton Beach, Florida

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 11:29am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
College/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I just arrived in Boynton Beach from Nashville, TN. Needed a fresh start and am wondering why I didn't do this a year ago! I'm new to the area and don't really know anyone. But I love it here!

I'm a girl who loves to cook. I love my friends, my dog, and am very close with my family. I always have my passport with me, just in case we want to take off at a moments notice! I love thunderstorms, the beach, and Gerber daisies. I have 2 grown girls and 4 brothers, so yes i actually do know what is going on during a football game (I prefer college ball, but love it all) and enjoy hockey as well.

I'm getting back in shape after a few years of not exercising. Wow I feel SO much better! I am honest, fun and looking for someone who laughs as much as me!!! Life is too short to stress about the little things and I'd prefer to meet people with the same philosophy. I'm looking for someone to spend my life with and am not a serial dater. I am affectionate and loving....I prefer the man to be the head of the house, but I'm not a submissive type so don't get the wrong idea. I'm looking for a partner, not a boss. I'm a girly girl (I must have my high heels and lip gloss) but having grown up in a house with a bunch of men, I'm totally comfortable being a tomboy as well. I do, at times, enjoy getting dressed up to go out to dinner but almost prefer staying at home and throwing something on the grill with friends over. I love anything to do with water....swimming, boating, snorkeling, scuba diving, etc...
My DREAM vacation is to sail around the islands (ANY islands...BVI, Greek Isles, Bahamas, whatever).....remember, I'm moving from Nashville.....not much water around here...I'm currently easy to please. : )
If you're just looking for a booty call, please pass me by. I am not interested. If you want that love they write plays about and are aware that at some point, it actually does take work, and are willing to put forth that effort, maybe we have something in common. If you want to spend hours by the fire, giggling, drinking wine, telling each other secrets and planning trips and the rest of our lives together...maybe you and I would get along. If you want to travel and see new places and experience new things and not just sit on the couch, maybe I'm your girl. And after traveling come back to a home and not just a place to throw your things, please send me an email!
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to figure things out and make good decisions. I'm on to a new chapter. Don't make the same mistake twice, and don't leave this world thinking "I should have done....."
I’m really good at
Cooking
Hosting get togethers
Making people laugh
Telling myself funny stories
I must not be good at more than four things...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books-My favorite book is my English Lit book from college. It has everything in there.
Movies- Midnight in Paris, Monty Python's Holy Grail, Anchor Man, Inception...I'm totally blank...I LOVE zombie movies...sorry, but there. I said it!! Oh, and I don't like movies that make me cry.
Shows- Favorite show is The Big Bang Theory. I also love Through the Wormhole...anything on the science or Discovery channel actually. I'm addicted to Criminal Minds. I love Matthew Gray Gubler in that show (Dr. Spencer Reid). Its that smart, hot, nerdy guy thing! I Love True Blood, American Horror Story and the Walking Dead! And football!
Music- yes I like it. Everything from Maroon 5 to Radiohead to SlipKnot to Elton John. No rap and I am learning to tolerate country.
Food- I love a good steak with a glass of red wine and some stinky bleu cheese! Mexican, Italian and someone took me recently for some amazing Thai food.
The six things I could never do without
laughter
my family
friends
lipgloss
TRUST
new experiences
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to be the person my dog thinks I am.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out....or in. depending on how my day went.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not ready to admit anything.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 40–65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You're a good tour guide and want to show me around FL or just think I'm cute and want to go out for a beer or glass of wine. Also, I REALLY want to SUP. If you enjoy that as well, let me know!
I dislike profiles that have lists of "don't contact me if..." on them, but sorry, I have to add one. If you are significantly younger than I am, please don't contact me. Yes, everything "they" say about older women is true, but I am not interested in breaking you in, raising you and/or your children or being a check mark on your bucket list. I don't care how cute you think you are, the answer is no! Sorry. But good luck and I hope you find what you're looking for. Everyone deserves to be happy.