is not just
something what happened in my fantasies. It is an important part in
my life, and when others say that I'm different - yes I am! And I'm
proud of it, never go with the flow. Freedom, respect, honesty;
play hard, play fair.
I can't exactly pinpoint a day when I found out that I am kinky
. I just realized it
over time. There has always been an attraction to tie up the girls
while playing the cowboy and Indian game :-). Later it went onto
other play and I took the time it needed to find my position. Today
I'm able to say what I want and what I need, but I will never claim
to be perfect. I'm human; I will never be perfect; life is full of
making mistakes and learning.
I'm not a Master, because I'm single. I might be able to become a
Master, but only of one person and not in general. It is a title
and a title is earned and not just given. So, if you would like to
mail, I don't like to be addressed with Sir, Lord, Master etc., I
have a name. As long as you don't know my real name, a simple hi or
hello will do it ;-) And just as an aside, I don't take the whole
part of BDSM
very serious and if 24/7
is your cup of tea, so be it, it is
not my one. . I see a submissive as a human being and not as a
piece of flesh I can play with. There is a heart and a soul inside.
Play hard - play fair. A limit is a limit and deserves respect. . I
have a very creative mind and this is also my most favourite "toy"
(apart from all the leather
and other stuff I own). I have been
told that I'm a sadistic bastard more than once; at daytime people
often say they want to talk to "the gentleman with that foreign
accent" judge by yourself if you ever get to meet me. .
Communication is key to any successful relationship. I'm someone
you can stay in with and talk about everything over a good wine
until the wee morning hours. . I've got a fetish
, steel has also got its
fascination. . I have a very open mind and living over the years in
a number of different countries gave me the opportunity to discover
and learn a lot about other cultures and to speak more than one
language. . Apart from BDSM, I have a wide range of interests and
am sometimes drifting away in my thoughts and on other days I can
be frightening silly. Life is about having fun and some days kinda
joke too. We have only this one and I want to take the most out of
I like to spend time discovering and exploring nature, for me it is
one of the best places to chill and to relax.
A good diner in excellent company is something I don't want to miss
and have to admit that I like to prepare it by myself. Some people
say that I should open a restaurant, but I prefer to cook for close
Other interests include architecture
, mostly of the
, Mies van der Rohe
etc. Also Art
in general (ever been in Napier?) Gaudi
with his beautiful architecture in
Barcelona is unique. And the Art of Hundertwasser speaks for itself
(Ok, I've known him in person; so it's sort of a subjective view
anyway). . I paint by myself and there are a few of my paintings on
this profile. 5 years at music college earned me also a degree in
percussion and classical and modern music. So, don't be scared when
I listen to Beethoven and the next moment want to listen to AC/DC.
Coldplay, Anstacia, Fenua, Die �rzte, Tote Hosen are all-time
fav's. . At times more a misanthropist than I would ever admit, but
not in a bitter way, I do enjoy being by myself and away from
people at the fullest when I want it.