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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Nov 20
Demisexual, Pansexual
Open relationship
Relationship Type
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Post grad
Has kid(s)
Has cats
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat), Latin (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm really only looking for friends right now, and my response time is super slow. Just so you know.

Danielle. Feminist, pro choice, pro equality, pro LGBTQ/ human rights, pro animal rights, anti-censorship, somewhat socialist. Baker, story teller, lover of dried fruit, wannabe musician, mother of two. Optimistic, stubborn, energetic, smart, loyal, unconventional, sort of spacy. Vegetarian, chocoholic, unitarian universalist(, gemini, non monogamous / polyamorous, pansexual.

I like people, and I like learning about why they are the way they are. I tend to read lots of books on religion and spirituality, anthropology, sexuality and gender and the history of gender roles, psychology, the evolution of language, histories of ancient civilizations, etc.

My main sweety is mindkeep, the best partner ever! We met here on in 2008.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now I'm mostly trying to figure out how to be a good parent to our 2 kids, whoa. If you live nearby and have babies/toddlers or are looking for parent-friends, message me! I'm also enjoying using all the vegetables in our CSA share in new and interesting ways.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Carcassonne. Having zombie contingency plans, writing, chopping potatoes, slicing pie (I used to work at a pie diner!), and quoting media such as the Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy and Futurama at random. And I'm a decent (if out-of-practice) mezzo-soprano.
The first things people usually notice about me
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If I am in a place where I expected to be social, then I am happy to meet you and you can probably tell! If you randomly recognize my OKC photo while we're both in the same grocery store or concert venue, I am happy to meet you but probably appear flustered and confused!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A) Books - Anything by Catherine M. Valente. The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy series by Douglas Adams, Good Omens by Neil Gaiman and Terry Pratchett, Lethe by Tricia Sullivan , and Stranger Things Happen by Kelly Link. I like hard sci-fi with a feminist spin, well-written fantasy (especially urban), most things with footnotes, and speculative short fiction.

B) Movies - Pacific Rim, Sunshine, Perfume, Buffet Froid, The Fifth Element, Spaceballs, Ghostbusters, Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure, Monty Python's Life of Brian, Rosencrantz and Guildenstern are Dead, Love and Death, Groundhog Day, Evolution, Zombieland

C) SO MUCH TV, Hannibal, Orphan Black, Futurama, Farscape, Red Dwarf, Better Off Ted, Invader Zim, Lexx, Doctor Who, Star Trek, Elementary, Supernatural, Chuck. I love the culture of fandom and sharing thinky thoughts about my shows with my friends.

D) Music - Tori Amos, Rasputina, Peter Gabriel, Mediaeval Baebes, Kate Bush, Type O Negative, Modest Mouse, Rusted Root, Queen, Neil Young, Joanna Newsom.

D) Food - Ovo-Lacto Vegetarian! chocolate, fruit, soy milk, carrots and hummus, dessert of any kind, whole wheat bread with figs and dates
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My piano, my voice, chocolate in any form, good friends and lovers, sunlight, and blowing up marshmallows in the microwave.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, the Universe, and Everything. Key changes. Emotional connections between and among people, how to form them, and how to keep them stable. Wormholes. Patterns of energy. What new ingredients I can try in my next batch of goodies. How much I'm going to enjoy eating this donut. Garden planning and tea blends. Baby and toddler sleep.
You should message me if
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I have an infant. If you and I click amazingly, I might be interested in dating, but mostly I need friends who are okay with (hopefully temporary) flakiness and problems with scheduling due to the baby. It would be so awesome if you live somewhat close to me.

I am committed to honesty and integrity in all of my relationships with friends and lovers, and sincerely wish that anyone who chooses to message me values the same.

I do not respond to everyone who messages me. Sorry, but it's impossible, and I get a lot of jerks and copy-pasters. If you haven't already, please read this OKC blog post: Exactly What to Say in a First Message. It will give you a much better chance of getting a response from me. Just sayin'.