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50 M Stratford, CT

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:05am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them

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My self-summary
Born in Brooklyn, raised in Long Island, college years in Minnesota, single years in Manhattan and married life in CT. I love music, film, and the buzz of NYC. Would prefer to meet someone who lives in the city if they are willing to take a chance. I could see myself moving back or finding a way to keep my lovely house on the pond for a dream life. Most of my friends are women who value my thoughtfulness, genuineness, humor and true friendship. Intellectual, Spiritual, Sensual, Intuitive, Liberal, Open minded. Music and film lover, Vegetarian. Can be very quiet or very engaged depending on my interest. The books, music, films, life experiences, and travels have shaped who I am and led me to this moment. In the process of attracting a legendary love. Oh and fwiw, I am a Dragon, an Aries, an 8 and an INFP. I work in Commodities.
What I’m doing with my life
Starting over and trying to live an artful life to the fullest. Staying close to Source energy and mining my Intuition for clues. Fulfilling my life's purpose. Currently writing my 2nd book which will be published with the first in 2014.
I’m really good at
Expressing my feelings, kissing, giving great hugs and being a woman's best friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
my eyes, soft hands, peaceful presence, and sexy voice
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: (small sampling of an enormous collection)

Miles Davis, Keith Jarrett, Pat Metheny, Al DiMeola, Gato Barbieri, Charlie Haden John & Alice Coltrane, Mahler, Louis Armstrong, Frank Zappa, Yes, Jon Anderson, Bob Dylan, Jackson Browne, Joni Mitchell, Laura Nyro, Leonard Cohen, Django Reinhardt, Dead Can Dance, The Gathering, Billie Holiday, prog rock, everything 70s and 80s stuff like Smiths, Ultravox, Talking Heads U2 etc. Some classical and Opera as well (Puccini).


Pescatarian, Sushi, Avocados, Asparagus, Broccoli, Quinoa, Sweet Potato's, most cuisines.
Blue Point Oysters, French Press 94 point coffees and Sencha, Gyokuro or Matcha teas


Coelho, Marquez, Castaneda, Hesse, Conversations with God, The Secret, Ernest Holmes, Joel Goldstein, Abraham-Hicks, Rumi, Rilke, Neruda, Journey of Souls, Destiny of Souls, Outrageous Openness, The Untethered Soul


Fellini, ,Bergman, Woody Allen, Noir, Almodovar, Morricone, Leone, any foreign film for that matter but here is a list of some faves:

Wings of Desire
I Am Love
Miracle At St. Anna
The Unbearable Lightness of Being
8 1/2
Once Upon A Time In The West
Once Upon A Time in America
Stardust Memories
Il Postino / Cinema Paradiso
Last Year At Marienbad
The Big Lebowski
The Life of Brian
Faster Pussycat, Kill Kill!
Two For the Road
Barry Lyndon and Fellini's Casanova (strictly for the cinematography)
the original 60s series: Get Smart, The Prisoner and The Avengers. (still searching for my Emma Peel)
The six things I could never do without
My Mind
I spend a lot of time thinking about
That 47% of the women on this site are Yoga teachers and 87% have a list of 'Don't contact me if" statements. :) But seriously, -->Dancing Tango with someone special. My purpose in the Universe. Trying to evolve into the best man I can be and feed my Spiritual/Intellectual/Sensual desires. How what's not expressed in conversation or relationships is as important as what is.
On a typical Friday night I am
Dancing Tango, watching Netflix, sharing drinks or dinner with good company
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 36–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
much of the above resonates with you and you possess a great sense of humor. But the truth is that I believe we have already chosen our love partners before entering this life. Its just a matter of time when your are going to meet them. In fact, its inevitable. There is nothing you can do to make it happen, other than be patient. Like all great things that were meant to be, they catch you by surprise. You can have everything in common but it means nothing without that magic feeling. The sense that you have met before. The reason is because you have :)