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tansunnytrip

45 M Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Apr 3
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
$250,000–$500,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, C++, Tagalog, Swahili, Icelandic

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
What follows is a bunch of "I's". Not because I'm narcissistic. But because I guess this is the part where we're supposed to talk about ourselves. It's but one of the many uncomfortable aspects of online dating or friending as far as I can tell. I was once told my profile was too wordy. Ironically, I realized my wordiness (nerdiness) served a purpose. Its own filter, so to speak. So. We'll keep it. Stay with me:

By day I design software. I take pictures. I paint. I do creative stuff. I am cliche in Seattle in that I work in software. Internet stuff. I have lived in 38 different cities. I believe chemistry is under-rated. I notice and appreciate good vocabulary. I would appreciate your witty notes. I am sensitive to the energy around me and the moods of others. I find my morning coffee to be a ritual that I look forward to when I'm getting ready for work. I am not religious but I went to private religious schools most of my life. I don't mind if you challenge me. I would like that. I think silence is often more powerful than words, yet I can sometimes be the life of the party. I will get in my car and drive for hours without a destination. I will get on an airplane for a weekend but may not have known the night before that it was going to happen. I sometimes like eating breakfast for dinner. I will laugh a lot. I'm funny. I am lucky. I will treat you with kindness. I am hard to be nervous around. I would never send you home wishing you hadn't met me even if we don't think there was a spark. I will be honest with you. I don't post photos that look some 10 year old rendition of me. I am not an online dating expert. I laugh at my own jokes. I do pay attention to the things you say that you like. I don't need lots of input to know what would make a good gift. I try to understand people's motivations. I can be temperamental. I am often good at helping people get out of a bad mood. I am often not great helping me get out of my own bad mood. I aim to please. I need attention. I have a lot of attention to give even though it seems my career wants to take all of my attention away. I am very social and do a lot of very social things but love early nights and movies and home and bed and quiet too. I tend to know what people are thinking. I learn quickly. I worry. I want things to go well. I get tired of hearing myself talk and would like to focus on someone else. I feel I've come farther than I ever thought I would. Life has been good to me. I am thankful. I have two brothers who are boisterous and odd and funny and good. I apparently don't know how to create new paragraphs. Or, I'm just interested in being unique and different. Probably that's it. I know that this profile probably makes me sound very serious but I'm not really. I relate to music. I would play music as a career in another life but now I make software. Maybe I'll get another chance. Maybe we all will? I will now throw out some good adjectives that I think fairly describe me. Dating buzz word bingo if you will:

Considerate
Compassionate
Intelligent
Understanding
Driven
Cultured
Funny
Kind
Strong
Adventurous
Complicated
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I design things, build things, travel and do things with my friends. Work-wise? Creative internet software geeky dork guy with a penchant for product building and mayhem creation finely balanced with disruptive digital pot stirring. Wholly unemployable. In other words. I am the CEO of an internet company. Yay.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Creating things out of highly ambiguous situations.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am driven.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A typical book: Fabric of Reality
A typical movie: Lives of Others
Typical music: Indie, Alt Country
Typical food: yes please
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends.
Travel.
Design.
Art.
Mac.
Something else I'm not thinking of right now.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Improving myself. And those six things I said I could never do without.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Traveling.
Or, hanging out with friends.
Or, at a show.
Or, just at home throwing paint on something.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can weld like a mad man. High school and summers in college job.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you might be a little bit willing to make fun of this whole online dating thing and laugh at me and yourself and whatever else feels like it needs laughing at.