Most important things for me
- health (remain drug/disease free)
- safety (kinkiness & fetishes are ok as long as things do not go out of hand)
- be non judgmental (judge not a book by the cover; attitude, personality, self esteem are more important )
- don’t knowingly hurt anyone (don’t tell, don’t ask; lying to protect is acceptable)
- give joy & pleasure (you get it a thousand fold back)
I subscribe to a component of tantric theory that says if you can raise someone's energy - it raise your own to the same level, if not more!
People are complex; relationships are infinitely more complex. So I am here with an open mind and open arms. My reason(s) to be here?
At the very least find one or more good friends to share life's journey. That ain't bad, is it?
And if we can share joy, physical pleasures, and enhance any other aspects of our needs - they would all be very big pluses :))