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66 M Orange, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:59pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Updated on July 18, 2014

First of all - this profile is a work in progress. It seems as if I am updating it non-stop and feels as if I am having a one-sided conversation with you, trying to tell about me as accurately as possible. Also - the user name I picked was at random. Sound awful. I wonder if I can change it !!!

PS - OKC says to that someone likes me. Unfortunately I am not a paid member, so the person who likes me is a mystery :) I wish you would tell me directly - LOL

Important to me:
- giving joy & pleasure
- not knowingly hurt anyone
- being non judgmental and open to all
- safety (kinkiness & fetishes are ok for fun)
- health: hygienic, fit and always drug/disease free

I subscribe to a component of tantric theory that says if you can raise someone's energy - it raise your own to the same level, if not more. Eroticity originates upstairs (mind). Good chemical reaction leads physical reaction downstairs :)

Have been a member of bay area poly group for years.

I notice that some women state in their profile that they would not initiate the first contact. WHY? I would think that in this day and age they surely should not be hesitant in taking the first step at all. I say that because it is possible that in our search for one another, you may see me before I do - so why miss the boat?

About the picture and the missing head... it is a compromise between having no picture and a full one. I think that a picture detracts from getting to know someone from inside. I would be happy to inundate you with pics later... if indeed it makes sense :) Regarding the missing head, if you are curious - imagine a tanned face, deep brown eyes, silver hair, small trimmed mustache :)

BTW - I have original body parts in good working order :))
What I’m doing with my life
exploring, learning, evolving, redefining life, traveling...
I’m really good at
I like doing things with my hands. Wood working, computer repairs, massage (certified, but non practicing, masseur), gardening ..... all that aside from my actual job!
The first things people usually notice about me
Will have to come back on this after all the votes are in - LOL
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books - mysteries
music - depends upon mood
food - love all well prepared food
movies - romantic comedies with happy endings
The six things I could never do without
internet & computer
books, crosswords, gardening
travel - have been to over 100 countries and still counting
sex with deep connection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- meeting new people
- travel to off the beaten track & countries I have not been to
And then there are times when I think of inane stuff like: why food & blood are spelt similar, but pronounced different?
On a typical Friday night I am
Gosh, that could be almost anything.... no pattern.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It wont be private anymore - so it will have to be one-on-one with you.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 50–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
- you are spontaneous and not shy
- you are ok with non-monogamous relationships
- you are sexually liberated, or at least want to be
- interested in tantra, poly lifestyle, erotica, touch of kink
- you are in a relationship & seeking close friends with benefits
- or you are far away and want to be intimate online pen pals