Speaking of food metaphors...I take the spaghetti approach to dating, i.e. throw it on the wall and see if it sticks. Just try it out and see. I am not looking for perfection, just someone who appreciates me and I appreciate in turn. I am willing to try and am open to the possibilities (throwing on the wall) and if someone "sticks" then that's great.
I embrace the life philosophy that we live from love or fear. I live consciously from love. I am not always consistent or mindful and I recognize that. I want a mate that does too. I want us to find our common humaness and in turn, our heart. Come join me and take the risk.
I view life and relationships the same, don't sweat the small stuff. For if there is a willingness to be in our hearts and to be connected then things can be worked out and life can be enjoyed.
I have been described as kind, grounded, open, honest, intelligent, empathetic, calm, centered, and positive.
I don't really have a "go to" thing to do. I enjoy being physically active, emotionally connected, and intellectually engaged so that can cover a variety of things. I am up for most anything for it is the company I share that is important to me more so than the activity.
I like this article on the criteria of finding the right person...
How to End Up with the Right Relationship:
"When you do find that sincere, humble, fair-minded person, you might be shocked to discover how sexy he or she is. It might be overwhelming to finally share a passion based on discovering the person in front of you—free from the conventional gender roles and judgments. There is nothing to fear, however, because the formula for communicating remains simple: You always mean what you say."