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34 Holyoke, MA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 28
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
When drinking
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Tamil (Poorly), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

9/21/14: Back in Boston! Weee!

8/1/14-8/4/14: In Brooklyn/NYC for the weekend. Get at me!

*UPDATE 6/17/14*

Currently working as an RN in Holyoke, MA and Providence, R.I..

I moved to the Northampton area from Boston. and am pretty unfamiliar with the area. I need to make some friends and would love to meet people to show me cool things to do around town.

I want to go biking, hiking, rock climbing, zipline, play video games, see art, live music, dance, check out interesting fun things.

Will someone take me on a bike ride around the area...RIGHT NOW?!

I take Okcupid with a grain of salt.

More to come...I don't do well with boxes. (I will chalk that up to being a unique snowflake, just like everyone else.)

I absolutely love what I do (the nursing gig) and will be doing it till the day I die.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a nurse.
Just graduated with my BSN. Will soon start working on a dual MPH /DNP.
Just started rock climbing and totally addicted to it.
Going to shows when I can.
Trying to get more bendy with yoga.

I'm looking to get a new bike. Want to help me find one?

Acquired a bike. Now looking for people who want to go bike riding with me. I am terrified of biking in the city.

There is NO excuse for boredom!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Keeping people alive.
Thinking that I am funnier than I am.
Telling really bad jokes.
Stretching the 11th hour.
Macgyver-ing things.
Having a good time.
Over thinking.
Incomplete sentences.
Hiding tattoos.
Jumping out of planes.
Getting soaked before I even get into the Kayak.
Kicking your ass in old skool video games.
Manning the jib.

I AM REALLY BAD AT: -Go-karting
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Smile...or boobs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The unbearable Lightness of Being; Everything is Illuminated; The Alchemist; Persepolis; The Motorcycle Diaries; Dr. Seuss; Mark Twain; Paul Farmer; Bukowski; David Sedaris; Noam Chomsky

Movies: Everything is Illuminated; all Monty Python; Woody Allen; Hot Fuzz; Zombieland; Shaun of the Dead; 500 Days of Summer; Batman; Sherlock Holmes; Groundhog Day (I think the premise is right on the money. Also, Bill Murray is hilarious.); Triplets of Bellville; Amilie

Shows: Archer; It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia; Arrested Development; American Horror Story; Flight of the Conchords; Breaking Bad; Walking Dead; Black Books; Spaced; Monty Python; Sherlock; and of course Doctor Who.

Music: Black Keys; Gogol Bordello; Hot Chip; Ray Lamontagne; Leonard Cohen; Pixies; Jeff Buckley; Starfucker; Ted Leo; Airborne Toxic Event; The Kinks; Happy Mondays; Nina Simone; Raveonettes; The National; Tom Waits; Yo La Tengo; The The; Miike Snow; Mutemath; M.I.A.; Lykke Li; Louis Armstrong; Ray Charles; James Brown; Stevie Wonder; Elvis; Fleet Foxes; Friendly Fires; Etta James; Al Greene; Andrew Bird; Beirut; Billy Holiday; Buddy Holly; The Heavy; Aesop Rock; Muse; David Bowie

Food: Coffee; Dosas; Peanut butter and bananas; beer; pumpkin everything; I have a new found obsession with Life Alive; Milk-steak with a side of your finest jelly beans...raw
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The antidote...seriously, it's pretty important
A parachute
Laughter and humility
#7 (because I am a rebel!)...npr articles like this:

Maslow's hierarchy of needs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Finding balance.

Sustainability. Poverty. Why the people with the least can find happiness but those that accumulate mass quantities of stuff are never satisfied.

Why people think it's a good idea to put strange objects in body orifaces. Someone will have to remove it when they go to the ER, and there WILL be laughter.

Trying to figure out where I will be in 6 months.

Getting my motorcycle license and subsequently getting a motorcycle.


Why does everyone on this site claim to be "laid back"? I'd love to meet the person who admits to being "high strung". *

*ADDENDUM: I met that person and I take it back. Laid back is good.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It varies. Probably (hopefully) something I shouldn't be doing. More than likely finishing a paper and wishing I didn't have to be awake and functional at 5am Saturday morning. Wednesday is the new Friday.


Now that I have just graduated, my Fridays will no longer be comprised of studying and paper writing. They will most definitely be filled with things that are far more enjoyable.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I shot a man in Reno just to watch him die.

I play this every time prior to taking an exam:

Beards do it for me.

I like my men the way I like my coffee...with a shot of whiskey.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to do any of the following: Make me laugh; belay me; go hiking; drink beer; get a tattoo with me; see a show; randomly leave the country; go for a bike ride; teach me something awesome; come up with your own creative suggestion...