I follow a motto of 'do minimal harm' & treat others like I would like myself to be treated.
When most people get to know me they find I will seek humor. That's my drug of choice, to deal with the twists and turns of life.
My goal is to age well, seek balance, and have lots of moments where a in my head notes 'this is wonderful!' Or, if not, gently taps me with a Zen stick, and says 'seek bliss!'