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tarheelinpa

37 M State College, PA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:56pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, German (Poorly), Other (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an intelligent, introverted, caring, & hard-working guy. I've been lucky to live many places, enjoy my work, and experienced enough to understand my profound ignorance. I enjoy walking and jogging, while contemplating the world and hopefully not bumping into a tree or car.

I follow a motto of 'do minimal harm' & treat others like I would like myself to be treated.

When most people get to know me they find I will seek humor. That's my drug of choice, to deal with the twists and turns of life.

My goal is to age well, seek balance, and have lots of moments where a in my head notes 'this is wonderful!' Or, if not, gently taps me with a Zen stick, and says 'seek bliss!'
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
If you were my dentist, I would say 'data analyst'. I once told a former dentist I was a statistician, & he told me about his difficulties in a stats course while scraping my teeth VERY HARD. (This could be adapted into a horror plot!)

Since you are not my dentist, I would say I am researcher that looks at social and health issues to address problems like drug use, violence, depression, and other problems. People hand me difficult problems, and I ferret out trends. I really enjoy this work!

I also work on personal growth and development, & spoiling my nephew.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Thinking, finding solutions to problems, and responding to issues.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm quiet and intense. Many people say my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read about two books a week, so the list would be extensive. The best classic I read recently was The Invisible Man by Ralph Ellison. For recreation, I read mystery novels such as PD James, Ian Rankin, Carroll O'Connell, & James Lee Burke. I like the development of a character over a series, & well, you know, a plot!

Do not watch many movies. I like the recent Batman series, The King's Speech, & a number of movies with Jimmy Stewart.

Music: Hip Hop, Blues, Country, Classical and some rock. Lately, I have been listening to Train, BB King, Mozart, John Mayer, Johnny Cash, & JZ.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A nice space outdoors for walking & running, good mystery writers, caffeine, a warehouse of arcane knowledge, and experiences with my late grandmother (who taught me humor & pushed me to get an education).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
a lot of things. Including that I should write less and get out more! =)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Often working. You will find me reading, assembling Legos for my nephew, catching up with family/friends, and contemplating the meaning of life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sometimes write poetry to express my thoughts and feelings. For example,

In my simple quest for love and romance
Eternity, measured by day, month or years,
Bring countless heartaches, lonely sunsets,
And tears which pour like sweat from hard labor
hoeing an endless row under a Sahara sun.

Yet though my throat be so dryly parched
as I wade through water above my neck,
On an endless downward slope
Paved widely and with brimstone to bottom
of an unrequited heart,
I am simultaneously ascending to highest heaven.

For in this darkness I find myself,
caught circling tilted windmills,
And find myself laughing that, through efforts vain,
I have discovered the beauty, strength, and comfort
of knowing that my spirit, body, and mind
can lead me through the greatest of deserts.

Despite being in or out of solitude,
the most splendid of oases await within
bearing a most opulent and filling feast
For a journey to the bottom of hell,
ascending to the top of heaven
Revealed a sparkling soul complete.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1) You can write
2) You have interest in writing
3) You choose to write
4) You understand that I appreciate all messages! =)