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46 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 33–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jul 30
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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If you want someone better than you dreamed possible, take a look at me. I may not be what you think you are looking for, but I will make the right woman incredibly happy. I am loyal, honest, intelligent and creative

Most often you will find me reading, dancing tango (or blues), or trying something new and unusual. Among other things, I have taken classes in upholstery, trampoline, roman sword martial arts, metal etching, and Aerial Acrobatics.

I am a great combination of assertiveness and caring. Most importantly, I have a great "sense of silly" and enjoy goofing around.

I am:
A good communicator. I listen well and will honestly tell you what I think
An intelligent, creative, and adventurous person.
Pretty easy going about most things (but injustice gets me riled up.)
Not too proud to date someone taller than me, smarter than me, richer than me, funnier than me, etc.
Ready and willing for a long term relationship.
Fine with a woman that writes first.
What I’m doing with my life
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I do computer programmer for a law firm. When not working I sleep, eat, dance, ski, travel, read, write, exercise, and go on adventures. Won't you join me on one?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Tango dancing, reading, writing, and finding new and unusual things to try.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My intelligence. Strange because I think I'm more creative than intelligent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite living authors are Louis McMaster Bujold and Steven C. Gould. (Note, not Stephen Jay Gould - different author). My favorites movies are "Bringing Up Baby", "Secretary", "Say Anything" and "To Catch a Thief". My preferred music is Beatles or Tango.

Favorite TV show: Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Mythbusters, Portlandia

Music: Sephira, Mansell, Beatles, Immediate Music

One of my favorite website is:
Allie Brosh is a very funny young woman.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A new book to read
Tango music
Partner to dance with
Something new and interesting to explore
Someone to talk to.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why everyone on dating websites lists "travel" as an interest. Is there a huge, untapped travel desire swelling the ranks of the single population of America? Do people hate their home towns?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
with friends. Perhaps at a movie, sometimes dancing, sometimes eating dinner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am very honest and nice.

In addition, I am definitely a geek and definitely kinky. I'm not into pain or other extreme 'edge' stuff, but if your experience is limited to 'vanilla' sex, then chances are I will expand your horizons. However, there are more important things in my life than sex, - my sex life does not define me.
You should message me if
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You are looking for a smart, interesting man to explore the world with you. Dancers, readers, and people with unusual hobbies get bonus points.