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46 M Saint Paul, MN

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My self-summary
I am simple. I spent the last years unwinding all the constructed parts of me to see what I wanted to keep around (which wasn't much). I am spacious, so I tend to relate easily with a broad range of people, but I am only really interested in relationships with people where the core of my being sparks with the core of theirs.
What I’m doing with my life
Living it. It tends to look different at different times, though it is always some sort of strange adventure.
I’m really good at
I'm better and better at being me. The rest I let others evaluate as they wish.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm not wearing a giant, red hat. Also that I'm not being chased by squirrels.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love music, and what I'm into at the moment changes. A tip of the iceberg list includes: Dead Can Dance, M83, The National, Cloud Cult, Jesca Hoop, Purity Ring, Tool, Puscifer, Metric, Wintersleep.

Books: Ursula Le Guin, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Neil Gaiman, Alan Moore, Fritz Leiber.

Movies: I think Wes Anderson's best is Moonrise Kingdom. I loved Warm Bodies, Cloud Atlas, and Now You See Me. I like angel movies like Wings of Desire and Angel-A. I like movies where people are brought to their edge and choose to explore/transcend it. It could be facing heartbreak in a foreign romance or facing zombies in some apocalyptic critter movie.

I like many kinds of food, but most of all I love making it.
The six things I could never do without
There is nothing I couldn't do with out (the universe is always fully offering itself). Here are things that make me smiley:

Being wrong about something. There is always a sense of relief when something is not what I thought it was. It means there is something much bigger to discover.
Night. If given the choice between never experiencing night again and being devoured by lizards, I would aspire to be lizardly delicious.
Music. I might give up people before I gave up music.
People who are themselves. We are all much stranger than we let on.
Story It's like raw experience, with spices!
Sharp kitchen knives I think they make the carrots respect my kung fu.
On a typical Friday night I am
Let's pretend I said something really interesting here.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you have something strange and interesting to say
you just got a new keyboard and want to try it out
you figured out how to make coconut caramel thick enough to stick to an apple
you just wrote a haiku and are bereft of friends that appreciate them