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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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6′ 2″ (1.88m)
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Graduated from university
My self-summary
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I am simple. I spent the last years unwinding all the constructed parts of me to see what I wanted to keep around (which wasn't much). I am spacious, so I tend to relate easily with a broad range of people, but I am only really interested in relationships with people where the core of my being sparks with the core of theirs.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living it. It tends to look different at different times, though it is always some sort of strange adventure.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm better and better at being me. The rest I let others evaluate as they wish.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm not wearing a giant, red hat. Also that I'm not being chased by squirrels.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love music, and what I'm into at the moment changes. A tip of the iceberg list includes: Dead Can Dance, M83, The National, Cloud Cult, Jesca Hoop, Purity Ring, Tool, Puscifer, Metric, Wintersleep.

Books: Ursula Le Guin, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Neil Gaiman, Alan Moore, Fritz Leiber.

Movies: I think Wes Anderson's best is Moonrise Kingdom. I loved Warm Bodies, Cloud Atlas, and Now You See Me. I like angel movies like Wings of Desire and Angel-A. I like movies where people are brought to their edge and choose to explore/transcend it. It could be facing heartbreak in a foreign romance or facing zombies in some apocalyptic critter movie.

I like many kinds of food, but most of all I love making it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
There is nothing I couldn't do with out (the universe is always fully offering itself). Here are things that make me smiley:

Being wrong about something. There is always a sense of relief when something is not what I thought it was. It means there is something much bigger to discover.
Night. If given the choice between never experiencing night again and being devoured by lizards, I would aspire to be lizardly delicious.
Music. I might give up people before I gave up music.
People who are themselves. We are all much stranger than we let on.
Story It's like raw experience, with spices!
Sharp kitchen knives I think they make the carrots respect my kung fu.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lately story ideas.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Let's pretend I said something really interesting here.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a wizard.
You should message me if
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you have something strange and interesting to say
you just got a new keyboard and want to try it out
you figured out how to make coconut caramel thick enough to stick to an apple
you just wrote a haiku and are bereft of friends that appreciate them