Why don't I have more pictures? I'm usually the one taking them! I guess I should have thought ahead. I'll work on that...

I'm into sailing, photography, science, art, music, and ideas. I want to travel more. I listen well and don't judge, and I like to dance and fix things. Do you sail? Do you want to?

I've been around. The chaos in my life has settled down a bit, and now I'd like to share the good parts with someone interesting and open.

I take care of my kids (3 and 5) three nights a week and Saturdays, look for new eats, and live on a 62' cutter in Alameda. I work in Livermore.

Listening, not judging, empathy, problem solving, being comfortable in varied situations, road trips, touching, and laughing at myself.

Probably my blue eyes and my shiny head! Then they probably notice that I am easy to talk to.

Humour, books, exploration, puzzles to solve, people to meet, and bodies of water

Picking up the kids for pizza and movie night. They sleep over on Fridays. My 3-year-old is always up by 6AM, so I have learned to turn in early (ish). I have them until Saturday evening. THEN things get wild! Might even stay up late!

I almost always use the OKC app, and not the website. Send me a message and give my pocket a buzz! Oh, and I have an unusual scar. Or two.

you have a sense of humor, good self-esteem, and optimism, and if friendship is at least as important as romance to you, and if you want to go sailing, ask me questions, tell me stories, or meet in person for a more (ahem) personal conversation!