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29 Cambridge, MA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 28–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:30am
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Less than $20,000
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I don't know your gender; all I know is that you have well-developed masculin and feminine selves. Whenever I hear your voice, I feel an overwhelmingly grounded sense of comfort, as well as a tinge of curiosity. You are equally excited by magic and quantum physics, and you've told me on several occasions that you often see the two as indistinguishable. You daydream about building sapient robots, or maybe you are actually in the process of trying to build one. You're a bit of a hedonist, and that's why people are always surprised by the bredth of your kindness. You treat your vulnerabilities as if they were sacred, and so you only show them to a few people. You love writing long lists, or letters with lots of footnotes. You take an abnormal amount of pleasure in naming everything and talking to inanimate objects. You are self-depricating, but it rarely comes across as annoying because you are just so endearingly funny. You're an introvert, more so than me, and your quiet is my refuge. .
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
You're an English professor or a medical illustrator or a designer or a painter or an acupuncturist or none of the above.

Whenever I imagine us together, we're always traveling; our adventures balance the novel with the familiar.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sometimes, you're really good at mind-reading. It doesn't happen often, but when it does, it totally freaks me out.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Your eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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You have this obsession with marginalia. You think intertextuality is sexy and that nonlinear narratives are hot. You listened to Serial, but you think it's more interesting to pinpoint its underlying metanarratives than to discuss the content. Or you think metanarratives are way too heady, but you're willing to briefly indulge me when I go on and on about Foucault and the gaze and shit like that. You've read The Wind-up Bird Chronicle, and you totally agree that the ending was ... disappointing, that the whole book was like this beautiful road trip that led to a motel room with a view of the parking lot. You enjoy reading aloud.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Empathy, spontaneity, wide open spaces, warmth, balance, tea, the smell of the ocean. That was seven, but arbitrary rules are overrated.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Your next trip to the beach.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I can imagine the two of us going to some loungey place for cocktails and tapas, and after that, coming home and sprawling on the bed with the dog (I hope we have a dog) and writing a fantasy novel/making art together.
You should message me if
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You resonate with some aspect of this description. (As a side note, when I attempt to describe my ideal partner to my friend, she affectionately refers to him/her as "your British unicorn person who doesn't exist." This does not mean that Britishness, or unicornness, or anything else I've listed here are mandatory characteristics.

if you've made it this far, and you are vexed by my penchant for deconstructed Okcupid profiles, here are a few facts about me.

1. I am getting my master's in Arts in Education. (I'm a congenitally blind person who is interested in visual art. Go figure that one out). I'm also applying for a fellowship to develop a sensory substitution device that might give me access to some vision. I may have a researcher cognitive science voice trademark when I want to put it on, but really, I'm a poet at heart, so I'm doing a lot of faking it till I make it and coming up with crazier and crazier theories.
2. I hate cheese. I hope this won't be a deal-breaker for anyone.
3. I strongly identify with Anne of Green Gables.
4. I almost turned this profile into one of my typical mosaicy interconnected poetry fragmenty pieces, featuring the ghazal, which I'm obsessed with, but was strongly advised not to do so. I guess I do listen to reason. Sometimes.
5. I love brunch.