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35 F New Orleans, LA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:24pm
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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brazilian from sunny rio de janeiro, i moved a year ago to new orleans and feel like it's all still pretty new in spite of all this time. still looking to meet some like-minded people and make new friends to make the cultural barrier feel less intense and more enjoyable.

i'm a 35 years old woman with a passion for my senses, which means i've experienced more than i can tell and i'm willing to try even more. that doesn't mean i'm a crazy person willing to jump on things without thinking twice, though: i am responsible and tend to be very balanced.

me in a nutshell: i'm short and curvy, i'm GGG, i'm 420-friendly, i'm polyamorous. i'm at the left side of the political spectrum and that matters a lot to me. i'm also an atheist and a feminist. i love going out dancing (although i'm turning into a very domestic person lately), i'm trying my hand at hooping for the first time and i'm curious about belly dancing and poi. i'm a self-confessed crazy cat lady that currently has just one cat (currently), after having fostered them for a while, i'm reasonably modded (meaning i have quite some tattoos and piercings) and have a style that makes me look kind of unusual to some of people.

most of all, i like bringing the interesting people i meet together whenever i can.

on the other hand, i am pretty allergic to sports fanatics, drunkards, hunters... and i hate doing the dishes - but i'll do them anyway.

what i seek is to share experiences. it makes them so much better with good company.

i strongly believe that us humans are social animals. i do not think we can really thrive when we isolate from each other or close ourselves up. we survived as a species because of our ability to stick together and grow in spite of everything. i think we need it.

with all that said, send me a message if you think we have enough in common to make it worth it for the both of us.
What I’m doing with my life
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trying to live it as best as i can, trying to make the ones i love happy (not always succeeding...), spreading as much good vibrations as possible, working hard to become the person that i am.
The first things people usually notice about me
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i'm weird in a really lovely, cat-like way.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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requiem for a dream, by darren aronofsky | blade runner, by ridley scott | bitter moon, by roman polanski | the hours, by stephen dauldry | gattaca, by andrew niccol | nymphomaniac, by lars von trier | melancholia, by lars von trier | rocky horror picture show, by jim sharman | fear and loathing, by terry gilliam | et coetera

1984, by george orwell | god bless you, mr rosewater, by kurt vonnegut | survivor, by chuck palahniuk | the art of loving, by erich fromm | invisible cities, by italo calvino | et coetera

i like music that moves me - my heart and/or my feet.
depeche mode | the cure | the sisters of mercy | siouxsie and the banshees | joy division | alice in chains | interpol | cocteau twins | bel canto | the knife | justice | dark | gothic | 80's | electro | et coetera
a small sample:

i never really watch tv. i watch whatever i want on my computer. the house tv is only there for me to play wii dance games. most of the series i enjoyed watching are over - any suggestions?
oh, but i love myself some documentaries and science shows, like bbc's horizon, cosmos (both the old and new versions), how the universe works, et coetera.
series? currently i'm watching masters of sex and you should, too.

vegan | northeast brazilian | thai | middle eastern
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my daughter
gender roles
coconut water
what to cook for lunch/dinner that's vegan and delicious
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
taking my vespa for a ride. i love the feeling of cruising the city with it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i read all of my matches' "unacceptable answers".
You should message me if
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you're liberal and open-minded.
you've got your shit together emotionally.
you're not religious and don't believe in astrology either.
you're not one to pass easy judgement.
you live to have meaningful interpersonal relationships.
you're looking for a scooter partner to ride around town.