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35 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:27pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Not at all
Other, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of space camp
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a San Francisco native though I expatriated to Oakland 4 years ago.

I love to cook, hike, make really good cocktails,
entertain friends, get dressed up, and/or stay in for a cozy movie night.

I love meeting new people, going out to Karaoke, and rainy morning hikes for wild mushrooms.

Finally back on two wheels so I love putting around town on my motorcycle.

I'm in a non-monogamous relationship with my girlfriend.
What I’m doing with my life
I work at burning man each summer and created the black rock cantina: the nerdiest, star warsiest bar in the desert.
Riding my bike a lot.
Creating stuff.
Craft distilling.
I also love these things:

Setting things on fire
I’m really good at
Fixing stuff
Glass blowing
Tying knots
Making things
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm a geeky Rockabilly guy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors: Charles Bukowski, Phillip Pullman, Robert Jordan, Neal Stephenson, William Gibson, Ian M. Banks, H.P. Lovecraft, Chinuan Achebe, Herman Hesse, George RR Martin, Patrick Rothfuss, Douglas Hofstaedter, Brandon Sanderson

Comics: Warren Ellis, Rick Veitch, Alan Moore, Frank Miller, Y! The Last Man, The Walking Dead, Penny Arcade, Ex Machina, XKCD, DMZ.

Movies: The Fountain, Star Wars (original trilogy), The Secretary, 3:10 to Yuma, Ghost in the Shell, Lawrence of Arabia, Paths of Glory, Bullitt, Jin Roh, Moonrise Kingdom, Night of the Hunter, Cape Fear (original), Romeo is Bleeding, Akira, Perfect Blue, Millennium Actress(or any other Satoshi Kon film), Princess Mononoke, Nausicaa, (or any other Miyazaki film), Bruce Campbell movies.

Shows: Archer, Dr. Who, Game of Thrones, The Mighty Boosh, The IT Crowd, The Office, Firefly, The Walking Dead.

Music: Camper van Beethoven, Tom Waits, Juno Reactor, Vivaldi, NiN, Deltron/Del, Jurassic 5, Public Enemy, Oingo Boingo (or any Danny Elfman,) Swayzak, Hank Williams Sr, Nena, Hyrule Symphony, Reverend Horton Heat, Nekromantiks, Dengue Fever, Gogol Bordello, Tool, Chris Isaak, Concrete Blonde, Crystal Castles, Daft Punk, David Bowie, Devo, Faith No More, Fotoshop, Leonard Cohen, The Magnetic Fields, Marilyn Manson, Massive Attack, MGMT, Passion Pit, Sigur Ros..... I like a lot! :)
The six things I could never do without
my friends are my family
my dog
a good book
a project
a sense of adventure
new things to learn
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the most inappropriate place to have a tea party.
On a typical Friday night I am
out on some sort of adventure with my friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
1. I don't drink for health reasons. I still love distillate arts and am happy to share my creations.

2. Apparently when I was 8 I wanted to be a hacker. This is particularly unusual since that was 1986. I wrote this story:

Once there was a boy.
He had a computer.
He jammed into a telephone system.
He jammed into the pest control.
When people wanted pizza they got their house sprayed with cockroach killer.

The End.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You love karaoke.
You want to ride bikes.
You want to visit all the locations of columnar basalt in the world.
You have style. I don't care what that style is, just have it.
You want to bring your dog to a play date with mine.
You're GGG.
You know and identify with the terms poly and kinky.