I'm newly single and looking around to see what's out there. I'd
like to get to know some new people and that's why I'm here.
What I’m doing with my life
working a lot, while taking some classes. Some day I'll figure out
"what I want to be when I grow up." However I might not. :-)
I’m really good at
conversation, making people laugh, cooking and relaxing
The first things people usually notice about me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
wow, I can't choose too many favorites because I like anything that
is done well.
The six things I could never do without
Coffee is the first on the list. For both the fact that I love the
taste and effect but also for the fact that I've been in the
industry for the majority of my adult life. Here I've found and
lost myself several times, co-workers have become friends and
family and has kept a me safe, warm and happy and for that reason I
could not do without coffee.
Food is second. Okay I know that without food I'd die and literally
couldn't live with out it. What I more can't live without is the
act of sharing food. I love to cook for people, have people cook
for me, and also just sharing a meal with someone. It's been such a
strong revelation in my life that this simple act is the most
powerful connector to another person and I truly love it.
Wine/beer/liquor is third. At the risk of sounding like an
alcoholic I do enjoy libations and everything around it. From wine
and beer tasting to going out to a craft cocktail bar I really
enjoy these activities with friends and of course with someone
Spirituality is fourth. I'd call myself a secular Buddhist/Taoist,
but really I follow any teaching that brings me closer to people
and to an over all sense of social justice. I do all I can in my
life to live without judgement of other people realizing that all
they are doing is living their truth as I live mine. I just want to
relate to people as who they truly are and hope they want to do the
same with me.
Music/Movies and that style of media is Fifth. What can I say, I
have taken refuge in these two media outlets ever since I was
little. I grew up in Alaska and was very isolated in many ways as a
young queer. I still find a lot of comfort in movies and music.
What kind you might ask? I like it all, well done, cheesy, every
sort of genre you can think of as long as I get enjoyment out of
Hopefully you've made it this far.
My overall sense of self in this world and my place in it is sixth.
Not sure this needs more explanation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
this moment and where it'll lead. That and superheros/super powers.
On a typical Friday night I am
taking it easy, spending time with friends or blessed alone time. I
like going out from time to time with friends and every great once
in awhile there's a bit of shenanigans that will go on. However
more times than not I'm cuddled up with a movie or a book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I admit nothing. Ask me a question and I'll answer it. Just
remember that if you ask, I'll give you the answer even if you
might not like what I say. More often than not you'll like it but
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