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38 • Seattle, WA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Apr 15
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Mostly anything
- Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from two-year college
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English, French (Okay)
Food is second. Okay I know that without food I'd die and literally couldn't live with out it. What I more can't live without is the act of sharing food. I love to cook for people, have people cook for me, and also just sharing a meal with someone. It's been such a strong revelation in my life that this simple act is the most powerful connector to another person and I truly love it.
Wine/beer/liquor is third. At the risk of sounding like an alcoholic I do enjoy libations and everything around it. From wine and beer tasting to going out to a craft cocktail bar I really enjoy these activities with friends and of course with someone special.
Spirituality is fourth. I'd call myself a secular Buddhist/Taoist, but really I follow any teaching that brings me closer to people and to an over all sense of social justice. I do all I can in my life to live without judgement of other people realizing that all they are doing is living their truth as I live mine. I just want to relate to people as who they truly are and hope they want to do the same with me.
Music/Movies and that style of media is Fifth. What can I say, I have taken refuge in these two media outlets ever since I was little. I grew up in Alaska and was very isolated in many ways as a young queer. I still find a lot of comfort in movies and music. What kind you might ask? I like it all, well done, cheesy, every sort of genre you can think of as long as I get enjoyment out of it.
Hopefully you've made it this far.
My overall sense of self in this world and my place in it is sixth. Not sure this needs more explanation.
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