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tbarr29

32 / M / Straight / Single

DeMotte, Indiana

His Details

Last Online
May 20
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
This profile / I am still a work in progress, so don't judge me too harshly! I'm a good looking divorced 32 year old, 6'3, 220 lb man. I'm not secretly a 70 yr old pervert! I happen to be one of the rare full time fathers you may have heard about. This is not to be confused with the ever popular week-end dad or the when its convenient dad. I don't have a lot of free time to hang out until after 10 pm when the kids go to sleep on weekdays or weekends when my ex feels like seeing her kids. It can be hard to meet women when your stuck at home. Also, I won't ask you to meet my boys untill we've been together for atleast six months.. This is just my personal policy and I think it works for the best.

Overall I would say that I'm a good guy, easy going, and fun to be around.
What I’m doing with my life
I've worked in sales for the past few years, but I'm not going to say where. I like what I do most of the time, but can't wait to start the next chapter of my life... I'm a few months away from finishing the business finance program at University of Phoenix Online. Maybe one day I'll be your financial planner or contract you on your auto loan if every thing goes well. Between Studying, working, and raising my 2 boys I stay pretty busy.
I’m really good at
Listening, tickling, making people laugh, dancing badly, most sports, being a dad
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, and tattoos. That I'm taller than most. Some people might think I'm a thug until they get to know me, I'm really am a nice guy, even though I've been told I can be intimidating at first.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't really read for pleasure often, does the newspaper or text books count? I'd much rather be reading to learn something than for entertainment. I don't watch a ton of TV and I generally can't stand reality shows.

Kevin Smith and Jud Apatow films are a favorite and I like alot of comedies unless they're too dumb. I really like movies with a message or that make you think. I love my Horror flicks, I'd like to watch em all and still enjoy them when there bad. I'm not really into action movies though, if you've seen one explosion, you've seem em all. I also willing to watch a Romantic Comedy with you and not bitch and moan about it.

Music is a big part of my life and I like to go to several concerts every year. Some examples of what I'm currently into would be
Punk: NoFX, Chocking Victim, Pennywise, Catch 22
Rap: Tupac, Outcast, Lupe Fiasco, Jay Z
Classic Rock: Pink Floyd, Led Zeplin, the Doors
90's Alternative: Nirvana, Smashing Pumkins, STP
Indie: The Shins, Bright Eyes, Phoenix, Cold War Kids

I used to be really into Metal/Hardcore, but as I've gotten older I've lost interest in alot of it. I really don't like country, boy bands, newer pop or Nickelback, it's ok if you do though , just don't ask me to go to a concert with you

Food: Italian, Mexican, Chinese, Japanese, burgers, pizza or Chinese.. I know I mentioned Chinese twice, I like it alot. Overall I'm not picky and like to try new things.
The six things I could never do without
My Mom - couldn't imagine raising these boys without her

My Cell - I like to text

Smokes - I hate them, but can't quit yet

Music - What would I bob my head to?

Sesame Street - It saved my life before... If you have kids u know what I mean

Sports - I played baseball and basketball in high school and I still like to watch when I can because I rarely get a chance to play anymore.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
If I'm officially a loser for trying online dating! JUST KIDDING!
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm probabaly going to be at work untill late and then just come home and do some homework, maybe have a few drinks and watch a ballgame before bed... I'm kinda lame. Unless you want to occupy my time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I wore braces in High School and was in Student Council!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals, casual sex
You should message me if
Your genuine and won't lie to me about your relationships with other people... I've been through enough of that and can't take much more. I don't care what your weight, height, or skin color is as long as you are willing to commit to me and treat me with respect... hope to hear from you soon.

Also, if you've read this far message me, it really bugs me when women check out my profile and don't.. and if I looked at yours and didn't message you, but you've read this far, message me.. I might have assumed you wouldn't be interested for any number of reasons.

Thanks,

Tom