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hapa21

42 Oakland, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Sign
Gemini
Education
Graduated from university
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Looking for my lobster

It's challenging to write a self-summary where one doesn't come off as self-indulgent, narcissistic and overly-confident. I am pretty confident but not overly so. It's balanced out with a good dose of humility and self-awarness. So here's a general overview of who I am. I'm a lot more down to earth, easy-going and, dare we say it, fun-loving than you might assume at first glance. I'm not perfect..no one is. Perfection (if it existed) would be ridiculously boring. Random things which I enjoy Snowboarding, Teaching, Pizza. Costco, Caring, Dogs, Volleyball, Road Trips, Running, Whistler, Target. Music,Friends. Water, Movies, Hiking, Thai Food, 24hr Fitness. Martial arts, Trivia. Hole In The Wall Bars, My Macbook, Chess, Travelling, Volunteering, Netflix, the counter, anything pineapple.
Who I am looking for: Somebody who is comfortable with a night on a town as well as staying in, appreciates impromptu road trips, willing to think outside of the box, loves activity as well as lazy days. I could go on but I would rather tell you in person.

In the spirit of transparency, I am 5'8, I weigh between 169 and 173 depending on how much I have eaten :) 31/32 inch waist, all my teeth and a full head of hair (for now) ;)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to save the world, one impressionable mind at a time. .
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being me, teaching, trivia, sarcasm, volleyball, speed chess, taboo, snowboarding, fixing computers.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My semi British accent
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
It is impossible for me to list all of my favorites, but a few that come to mind are:

Fave books- Jurassic Park, To kill a Mockingbird, Calvin and Hobbes, Boondocks
Movies- Scott Pilgrim, Star Trek, Pulp Fiction, Fight Club, Snatch, Princess Bride, Tropic Thunder, Love Actually, How To Train Your Dragon, Dogma, Blood in Blood out, Despicable Me.
Shows- Sherlock, Bones, Big Bang Theory, Archer, friends, The league, Entourage, HiMYM, The Daily Show, Luther, Will and Grace
Food- Thai food, Pizza, still looking for a good place in the bay area. (Edit I have since found two great pizza restaurants)
Music- Nina Simone, Arcade Fire, DeathCab for Cutie, John Legend, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Bruno Mars, U2, Foo Fighters, Rage against the Machine, Public Enemy, Johnny Cash, Otis Redding, nine inch nails, nirvana, muse, the list is endless
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, sustenance, toilet paper, humour, an internet connection, snowboard.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no such thing as a typical Friday night, I may be playing volleyball/at the gym, I might be relaxing at home, I might be out with a friend/friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like to stop the microwave with one second left and pretend I just defused a bomb, also I beat the Kobayashi Maru!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you live an active lifestyle and want to travel the world or If anything in my profile appeals to you. I am always looking for new friends who have similar interests.