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tbh1979

35 Oakland, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm an intelligent, thoughtful, passionate, and driven person. I alternate between awkward, shy, witty, and charming.

I was born in Massachusetts, grew up in Georgia, went to college in Connecticut, spent my 20's in California and my early 30's in Colorado, and made stops along the way in Maine, Ohio, and Illinois. I'm a left-wing radical and I spend most of my waking hours trying to help build a workers' movement. (I'm a union organizer.)

Things I like to do when I'm not working:

Hike, backpack, climb, and generally explore the mountains.

Explore the city: checking out bars, restaurants, old theaters, small music venues, neighborhoods, or just walking around staring at buildings.

Photography: digital, film (love the darkroom), polaroid.

Run, cook, eat, drink, write, sail, get into trouble.

Some of these things I don't do nearly often enough, and if you can inspire me or give me an excuse to change that, you're the best.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Plotting the revolution.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dry humor, working hard, sleeping in, driving stick, speaking Spanish. Exploring. Getting lost and unlost. Simplifying things and making things more complicated than they are. Stressing out and finally relaxing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes and the serious, concerned look on my face. Or I said something funny (intentionally or not). Or my hair is messed up and I don't seem to be aware of it. Or I seem distracted and awkward. I'm usually kind of quiet when I don't know you yet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Middlesex, The Corrections, Homage to Catalonia, The Sun Also Rises, One Hundred Years of Solitude, Everything is Illuminated. Shakespeare, Milton, Wordsworth, Wallace Stevens, James Dickey, Alice Munro, William James.

Jules and Jim, The 400 Blows, Breathless, Pulp Fiction, Unforgiven, The Wind that Shakes the Barley, Rushmore, No Country for Old Men, Harold and Maude, Annie Hall, Taxi Driver, Do the Right Thing, Rear Window, Grand Illusion, Satyajit Ray.

Wilco, Pixies, Miles Davis, Bach, Iron & Wine, Gillian Welch, Lucinda Williams, Bob Dylan, Talking Heads, The Clash, Iggy Pop, Biggie Smalls, Mission of Burma.

Indian, Ethiopian, Mexican, Pho. Good coffee, good beer, red wine, good whiskey.

(Disclaimer: this list is partial and subject to change.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sunshine, water, dirt, chile peppers, solitude, human contact.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The movement, the future. How to live better and be happy. What I'm going to do tomorrow. All the places I want to explore. Public transportation, architecture, and urban design. How to fit more hours into the day, more days into the week, and more weeks into the summer. When I get to sleep.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Atypical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm bisexual. (But you knew that already.) I'm very open to meeting and getting to know and possibly dating both men and women. But I should say that I find myself mostly interested in a relationship with a woman.
You should message me if
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You're intrigued and intriguing.

To be more specific: I'm looking for someone to who likes to have an intelligent conversation, crazy fun, or a good quiet cuddle. Someone who knows what she likes and what she wants, but is open to unexpected adventure. Someone who's smart, creative, fun, and maybe a little crazy, but healthily so. Someone who likes to read, to see good movies, to hike or ski or bike or climb or surf, to explore the city, and sometimes just to chill.