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32 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–36
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:17am
Middle Eastern, White, Other
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Used up
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
More than $1,000,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Greek (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
**5.9.14 Update**

I was starting to lose faith in OKC, had met a string of wonderful women, but that emotional connection, that can't-help-yourself- attraction, that ooey gooey loving feeling we all look for was just out of reach. Until a few weeks ago that is when I met an incredible, delightful, and amazing woman, here, on OKCupid.

Her profile was great, but her photos didn't really capture the magic that I found when I met her. We were both a bit ambivalent on the way to the first date, but as soon as we saw each other, it's like we had known each other for years.

This is a note saying do not despair, keep at it, go on dates, be open to surprise, have no expectations, and the universe tends to deliver exactly what you've got coming.

Also, I'm not available for dating. Then why am I still on here? Because my passion is helping people find love and I do that here:


I'm excruciatingly outgoing but value my alone time.

I was not born in this country, I hold multiple passports, and use them frequently.

I want to have fun, laugh, explore, be tender, kinky, playful, serious, vulnerable, strong, soft, honest, authentic, and real.

Where do you fit in? You should want most of these things as well.

I've found that chemistry is best explored in person. That means I'm interested in meeting you in person and I'll have little expectations other than enjoying your company and meeting someone new. Hopefully we'll click, but most probably we won't. That's OK.

I think that smell is a good predictor of general compatibility so I'm likely going to try to get close to you and smell you. Deal with it.

Other than that: playful, sarcastic, capable, handy, awkwardly creative, autodidact, GGG, realistic, ENFJ, happy, sort of hippy, and grounded.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently:

- Hosting and producing a show about sex, love, and life. If this doesn't scare you away I'm not sure what will. Find it here
- Helping people fix their bikes
- Riding my bike, lifting weights, and moving my body
- Crafting, tinkering, sewing, building, creating, destroying

I'm working towards:

- Building a business that involves love, truth, humans, connection and that will enable me to work from wherever I want.
- Creating and fostering a loving community of friends, allies, partners, and lovers...
- Actively thinking about family life, and my future role as father
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Open communication: I can articulate my own emotions clearly, take responsibility for them, and help others do the same.


Getting free coffee.

Making jokes when I'm uncomfortable.

Figuring out how things work and fixing them.

Mending clothing

Being self-sufficient and well prepared.

Kicking up the weird.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I look older than I am. If you have a daddy fantasy I'm your man.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Beets, beats, books, and bullshit.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
exercise. modes of transportation. love. laughter. sunglasses. traveling.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Connection. Community. Intimacy. How to be honest and kind. How things work. How to be a better friend/son/brother/lover/ally. Why everyone doesn't have a FasTrak dongle. What's the best way to get somewhere. What should go in my bugout bag.

Things I'm newly starting to think about: If polyamory works. How to raise children properly. My privilege. Oppression. Not living in the city. Communicating non violently. Loving whole heartedly. Daring greatly. How to be a great father. Building a home in the country. Astrology
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going through your mail in my cut off shorts...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I haven't worn underwear or deodorant in over 5 years.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think we'd smush well together

You're curious how I smell

You can get us free coffee

You want to learn how to mend the crotch of your ripped jeans

You agree with this...