I was starting to lose faith in OKC, had met a string of wonderful women, but that emotional connection, that can't-help-yourself- attraction, that ooey gooey loving feeling we all look for was just out of reach. Until a few weeks ago that is when I met an incredible, delightful, and amazing woman, here, on OKCupid.
Her profile was great, but her photos didn't really capture the magic that I found when I met her. We were both a bit ambivalent on the way to the first date, but as soon as we saw each other, it's like we had known each other for years.
This is a note saying do not despair, keep at it, go on dates, be open to surprise, have no expectations, and the universe tends to deliver exactly what you've got coming.
Also, I'm not available for dating. Then why am I still on here? Because my passion is helping people find love and I do that here:
I'm excruciatingly outgoing but value my alone time.
I was not born in this country, I hold multiple passports, and use them frequently.
I want to have fun, laugh, explore, be tender, kinky, playful, serious, vulnerable, strong, soft, honest, authentic, and real.
Where do you fit in? You should want most of these things as well.
I've found that chemistry is best explored in person. That means I'm interested in meeting you in person and I'll have little expectations other than enjoying your company and meeting someone new. Hopefully we'll click, but most probably we won't. That's OK.
I think that smell is a good predictor of general compatibility so I'm likely going to try to get close to you and smell you. Deal with it.
Other than that: playful, sarcastic, capable, handy, awkwardly creative, autodidact, GGG, realistic, ENFJ, happy, sort of hippy, and grounded.