Hi. My name is Tim and I'm a father of 2 great boys who live with
me 100% of the time. I'm not single by choice, but lost my wife in
a car accident in December of 2007. While we still miss her, talk
about her, and have a few pictures up, we have moved on with our
lives in hopes of finding someone to share the next chapter
with.
I have been out several times with a few people since the accident and have met some nice people but no one that clicked. I guess I'm here to see what's out there for a guy like me. I'm honest, caring, tend to side with the underdog, a christian with strong morals, a Titans fan (but not one who has to watch every game), a little geekish, avid reader, computer nerd (who can and will fix your computer! lol), and all around nice guy. I could have put in there wild and adventurous, because at one time I was years ago, but having kids causes one to learn about self-sacrifice and responsibility. The wildest thing about me now is my motorcycle. I am far from perfect, but I keep trying. Most recently I started exercising at a local gym and start with a trainer in January to get into better shape.
I am a romantic, dedicated and loyal, and ready for the one.
A couple of notes about this site:
The chat function rarely works for me. Not sure what the problem is but sometimes I see it and sometimes it never shows up.
If I wink at you, it's not because I'm too stupid or too lazy to write. I'm throwing out an exploritory 'hello' to see if you would like to talk. If you do, then wink back. I'll initiate a conversation, I promise. I just like a ticket to the "clue bus" (or a whap with a "clue-by-four") to see if you are open to talking. :)
So recently I've been told that I am too old for my target range. I thought a little explanation was necessary. I have 2 young boys. Most women my age seem to not want kids, or want kids that young. I am totally open to dating anyone my age (even plus a few years) but you have to understand that its a package deal. I don't seem to look my age (and truth be told, act it either sometimes!) anyway. I am looking for someone who can welcome the chance to become a part of a family. Come on! Here's your chance to be surrounded by 3 guys all your own. :)
Lastly, I'm really at a loss as to where all the curvy, nicely shaped women are. My dream woman has a 'few extra' but still has a shape to her. I love a renniasance, classic woman, voluptious and with substance. Surely there are those still out there, aren't there? A woman that likes to be a woman, is girly and appreciates chivalry and someone that honors her, who cares about the way she looks, because she knows that size is not what makes a girl hot, it's all attitude and happiness with who you are. Ever see 'Drop Dead Diva'? Women like that. That's kind of what I think is attractive, just so you understand what I am looking for, because I know the world says that only a size 0 can be beautiful but the world is so wrong. :)
So what would be the trade off for engaging in a LTR/marriage with a guy like me?
1. All the fun of kids with none of the horrible pain of birthing! I'm open for another child or so if it was agreed on, but if birthing is not something you look forward to, I'm your guy! :)
2. A guy who is not going to run aroud on you, play games with you, is emotionally available, doesn't mind PDA's, and has no baby mamma drama.
3. I already have a career and don't need to spend every waking hour trying to chase the dollar. This means I can spend my time being a better BF/SO/etc to you. Most of my bills are paid and I love buying surprise gifts, too.
4. I actually call when I tell you I will. If I am going to be late (or am late) I call as soon as I can after the promised time to let you know why. I know this sounds obssesive, but I call it common courtesy.
more to come.....
t
I have been out several times with a few people since the accident and have met some nice people but no one that clicked. I guess I'm here to see what's out there for a guy like me. I'm honest, caring, tend to side with the underdog, a christian with strong morals, a Titans fan (but not one who has to watch every game), a little geekish, avid reader, computer nerd (who can and will fix your computer! lol), and all around nice guy. I could have put in there wild and adventurous, because at one time I was years ago, but having kids causes one to learn about self-sacrifice and responsibility. The wildest thing about me now is my motorcycle. I am far from perfect, but I keep trying. Most recently I started exercising at a local gym and start with a trainer in January to get into better shape.
I am a romantic, dedicated and loyal, and ready for the one.
A couple of notes about this site:
The chat function rarely works for me. Not sure what the problem is but sometimes I see it and sometimes it never shows up.
If I wink at you, it's not because I'm too stupid or too lazy to write. I'm throwing out an exploritory 'hello' to see if you would like to talk. If you do, then wink back. I'll initiate a conversation, I promise. I just like a ticket to the "clue bus" (or a whap with a "clue-by-four") to see if you are open to talking. :)
So recently I've been told that I am too old for my target range. I thought a little explanation was necessary. I have 2 young boys. Most women my age seem to not want kids, or want kids that young. I am totally open to dating anyone my age (even plus a few years) but you have to understand that its a package deal. I don't seem to look my age (and truth be told, act it either sometimes!) anyway. I am looking for someone who can welcome the chance to become a part of a family. Come on! Here's your chance to be surrounded by 3 guys all your own. :)
Lastly, I'm really at a loss as to where all the curvy, nicely shaped women are. My dream woman has a 'few extra' but still has a shape to her. I love a renniasance, classic woman, voluptious and with substance. Surely there are those still out there, aren't there? A woman that likes to be a woman, is girly and appreciates chivalry and someone that honors her, who cares about the way she looks, because she knows that size is not what makes a girl hot, it's all attitude and happiness with who you are. Ever see 'Drop Dead Diva'? Women like that. That's kind of what I think is attractive, just so you understand what I am looking for, because I know the world says that only a size 0 can be beautiful but the world is so wrong. :)
So what would be the trade off for engaging in a LTR/marriage with a guy like me?
1. All the fun of kids with none of the horrible pain of birthing! I'm open for another child or so if it was agreed on, but if birthing is not something you look forward to, I'm your guy! :)
2. A guy who is not going to run aroud on you, play games with you, is emotionally available, doesn't mind PDA's, and has no baby mamma drama.
3. I already have a career and don't need to spend every waking hour trying to chase the dollar. This means I can spend my time being a better BF/SO/etc to you. Most of my bills are paid and I love buying surprise gifts, too.
4. I actually call when I tell you I will. If I am going to be late (or am late) I call as soon as I can after the promised time to let you know why. I know this sounds obssesive, but I call it common courtesy.
more to come.....
t
