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45 F Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 36–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:24am
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Outgoing, high energy, passionate, independent, busy, active and keep it moving forward. I'm smart, honest, know myself very well, experienced, caring, sensitive, goal-oriented and I can be pretty funny. I love life and most people some of the of the time, I find my patience is thin for those that moan but are unwilling to put in the work to make life what they think it should be. JUMP - I say. Dump the fear.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, helping build a new business, enjoying the city, attempting to learn more than i ever knew existed about craft beer - which is quite interesting actually.Seking interesting male companionship, Planning my next trip.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being organized. Having fun.Getting up early. Self motivation. Waiting for the right fit and knowing when to fold my hand.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Eyes. Energy. That I'm on the move a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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TV: when I watch it...documentaries, Jon Stewart, Bill Maur, jimmy Fallon, The Big C, Nurse Jackie, Breaking Bad, Madmen, Jeopardy, Weeds, Dexter, Shameless, Californication, The Bulls, Ab Fab, PBS, HBO, SHo. Need to hook.up cromecast for netflix but its not winter yet.

Books: Girl Gone, The Paris Wife, Devil in the White City,The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo,David Sedaris, many more...i like to read..

Music: Poi Dog, Kings of Leon, OAR, Bodeans, The Keys, Givers, Bon Iver, Cold Play, Adele, Bruno Mars, Fitz & The Tantrums, Wilco, Florence, Gaga, My Morning Jacket, REM, Peter Garbriel, Brian Setzer, Dave Matthews....Alternative to Blues, just not much country or too much rap. 80's like Talking Heads, Cure, Peter Murphy.

Movies: mind embracing films perferably. Some oldies. Usual Suspects. Something clever. Docs

Food: Dining touring . All. Anywhere. My kitchen.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sunshine/Ocean/ comfy bed/ travel / my work / personalities of others/ respect
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My mind tends to stay in the "on" spot unless I'm asleep. Even then i wake the middle of the night! . I think about everything
"Time Evaporates. Emotion Elevates."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not a fan of plans in my free time. Variety please. Looking for some trouble. Spontaneous combustion, without the crowds if possible? I prefer public outing during the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Dating is a drag....can we just see if we might have a conversation, connection, a rare "actual meet up" AND then an adventure??
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
personality is a big turn on. Lets be spontaneous and go.

I love take charge kind of guys with spark, sizzle, sass and maybe a bit of swag. Khaki, stepford -esque, repubublicans or boys.... need not apply.

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