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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:44am
Hispanic / Latin, White
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from Ph.D program
Seeing Someone
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I asked an ex for a referral. Here it is: "He's thougtful. He's funny. He's gorgeous. We laughed. We cried. I didn't want it to end. But he was right about that. The bastard."
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Carpe diem! But not everyday, that would be excessive.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Putting people at ease. I have interesting conversations with a wide spectrum of people and really enjoy that.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Hitchcock, Hendrix, Miles Davis, Woody Allen, Their Eyes were Watching God, SJ Perlman, Shawshank, Black Keys, Chet Baker, Coltrane, raspberries, dark chocolate, Chocolat, Goodfellas, Joni, Glen Gould, tamales, Bronx Tale, Pulp Fiction, Philadelphia Story, Billy Wilder, Kazan, Jimmy Cliff, jack black, caddyshack, Malbec, stockings and heels, herb roasted leg of lamb, NPR, Lera Lynn
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
shade grown coffee
farm to table anything
artisanal vegan soap
creative ferment
sustainable cocktails
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lately I've been thinking about all of the aphorisms that I've read on OKC. Carpe diem, be in every moment, live each minute to its fullest. Do these allow for sleeping in on Saturday or taking a nap? What about daydreaming? Would that not be in the moment? Maybe it's just me, but aren't life's peaks more enjoyable with some refractory period between them? ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm not sure that I have a typical Friday. That said, Friday evenings are relaxed, whether out with friends or lounging at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I enjoy doing laundry and ironing. It's literally a fresh start, renewing all options. What's not to like?
You should message me if
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If you're curious, spend too much time thinking about stuff that you believe would only interest you, and you laugh easily and often...