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32 Atlanta, GA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jan 8
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Christianity, and very serious about it
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them

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My self-summary
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Let me start off by saying that I drink plenty of water and Gatorade.......THEREFORE..... I AM NEVER THIRSTY!!! IN other words, PLEASE DON'T THINK that all I want is sex. I have a genuine heart, so I try to be very clear about my intentions and motives. Its great for a woman to have standards, JUST KNOW that as a MAN, I have mine too.

So, what am I looking for? Well I'm glad you asked. I am interested in meeting that ONE person that can be my partner, my lover, and my best friend, Not a FRIEND with BENEFITS!!!! BE ADVISED...... If I interact with you, that means that there was something UNIQUE OR INTERESTING about your profile that caught my attention BESIDES your PICTURES; such as your interests, personality, demeanor, intellect, creativity etc. The phrase, "ASK ME" or "JUST ASK" is not unique or interesting...its ANNOYING.

I am a proud Christian. I'm not perfect, but having a relationship with God is VERY important. I am kind of simple and old fashioned. I like to talk, NOT TEXT, I like face to face interaction, NOT FACEBOOK interaction. I want to COURT a woman not F*ck. I believe in being a PROVIDER, not a SPONSOR!!! I like a wide variety of activities. I don't go to clubs much, I have outgrown that life. I tend to be very spontaneous and random at times. Well Do I still have your attention? If so, feel free to leave me a message, lets get acquainted.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have 2...YES 2 jobs, one Bachelor's degree, and no baby mommas. Both jobs are techinical support. I do like working with business technology and web applications. It's been my profession for the past 5 years. My job, income, nor my degree define me as a person nor does it qualify me as a "GOOD MAN"!! I don't measure my success by how much money I make and the type of job I have. Bottom line.... I work hard to get and MAINTAIN all the things I want in life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can play piano and I used to sing as well. I actually have been heavily involved in music during my high school and college days, I was also a church musician. I'm pretty good with utilizing computers and electronic devices. Meaning I utilize them for more than uploading stuff to FACEBOOK, TWITTER, INSTAGRAM. I like to think of myself as a good problem solver. I feel I am good with communication. People sometimes tell me that I have a "way with words" I don't know if thats a good thing or a bad thing, maybe a little bit of both.
The first things people usually notice about me
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well, I have been told that people notice that i have nice teeth, nice lips, I have been told that I articulate myself very well but I can be very witty at times, I'm easy to talk to.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books-anything by zane, eric jerome dickey,
movies- too many to name
music- 90's R&B, Gospel, Jazz, Alternative rock, 70s r&b, reggae
food- all types. its easier to name all the foods that I don't like.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
struggle- (builds character but never intended to be permanent)
common sense
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What type of husband do I want to be?
I would love to SLAP THE SH#T out of the people who created REAL HOUSWIVES and BASKETBALL WIVES.
How can a woman describe what it means to be a "REAL MAN?" I didn't even know that a WOMAN was qualified to understand what its like to be A MAN? hey JUST SAYIN!!!
What does it mean when a woman says she want a "professional" man. Would a mechanic or a construction worker count as "professional" even though they are TRUE PROFESSIONS but don't require them to have an office or wear a suit to work.
If I were a father, what type of legacy would I want to leave with my children.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I treat my friday nights like a piano.......I PLAY IT BY EAR!!! Its a true analogy because I actually can play a piano by ear.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Im a great kisser.
You should message me if
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You actually desire a serious relationship (Not just dating for the fun of it).
You don't carry the "all men are dogs" mentality.
You have a relationship with God.
You want a partner, NOT A SPONSOR!!!(unfortunately, i've met a lot of women that don't know the difference)
You are affectionate and You seek an affectionate partner.
You are independent BUT know how to allow a man "to be the man" in the relationship.
You know how make a man feel appreciated for his effort in trying to make you happy. (and I am not implying anything sexual)