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26 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
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My details

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Asian, White
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Seeing Someone
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Vietnamese (Poorly)
My self-summary
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floating in-between places, in a relationship, but I always like to chat about music and politics.
good conversation is rare when you're shy, you know? it's important to take it where you can. us shy people need to stick together, and find more talkative people who they can be comfortable with.

follow me on twitter - I'm @tdn_ - my account is locked though, please don't take it personally if I don't accept
What I’m doing with my life
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walking all over town
writing for school
trying to get things tailored
trying to get someone to pay me to spend my life in asia
playing storytelling oriented tabletop games. no DnD, please
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
water, being in water, wanting to but not understanding how to take selfies, sounding smart about art, chatting about fashion (I'm told by multiple people I'm quite fun to shop for clothes with, which to me is some of the highest praise I've ever received).
i like to dance, sometimes
The first things people usually notice about me
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maybe i'm making tea for everyone,
or sitting and listening to someone talk,
or DJing relaxing music for the party

my hair is long...?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Emmanuel Levinas. I do the Marx thing sometimes. Steinbeck, Bolaño, Pynchon, G.K. Chesterton, Tom McCarthy. Erofeev and Rich, poetry.

Paris, Texas is a great movie. Żuławski's Possession is my problematic favorite (I like watching people be very emotional in movies). I would like to go and see Tangerine.

ambient music - Deceptikon, Long Arm, Heathered Pearls, Christopher Willits
house - really into Kate Simko, Matt Tolfrey, Kornél Kovács, Galcher Lustwerk
classical - Ligeti, Part, Satie
i really like spanish-language pop, like Javiera Mena, Kali Mutsa and BFlecha
Cath Caroll is my hero.
I also ran into Yumi Zouma in a Trader Joe's once, they're the best
and Kendrick Lamar, of course.

i like to make broths and eat really spicy things
also pomelos
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
some space to myself,
a pool,
well-dressed friends,
my fancy books,
my 7-year-old ipod,
and a decent pair of shoes to take around a shining, lovely city.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
W A T E R, how to get it / be in it
where it is that i can go dancing that will be good
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
translating pop lyrics into english
or more likely writing
most likely of all making a broth of some sort
maybe doing my nails
every so often, if a good dj is in town, dancing
You should message me if
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You want to chat about left politics or you happen to be really into ambient music (and wanna go to Sun Night with me and my friends maybe, if that still exists) or if you wanna go dancing and know where the good clubs are.

If you want to talk about any of my likes I'd really enjoy talking to you about them! I like to sit for a long time in relaxing bars, nursing one drink, just talking with a friend, and I'd like to do this more.