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37 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 23–38
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 21
5′ 10″ (1.77m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English, French

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My self-summary
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nerd, writer, maker, entrepreneur, sociologist, musician, outdoor-loving mischief-maker. From northern England.
What I’m doing with my life
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Making things, and writing books.
Please get me to play outdoors more. I'm good at it and enjoy it, but with you it's much more enjoyable. That could make me happier!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Don't praise yourself...
Let others do it.

oh sod it! I'm not bad at music. Time to play some more. classical training, but the tastes are pretty broad across most things Bach, Bluegrass, electronica...
The first things people usually notice about me
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boundless energy. smiles
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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How the feck did I only just discover Vonnegut 18 months ago? Huge influence: if you like his kind of satire but can still smile we'll get along fine. I have literally thousands of books. Chaucer onwards, via shakespeare, dickens, Orwell, ending with Neal Stephenson, China Mieville, Iain Banks, Charlie Stross and such nerdish things. a philosophy degree, heaps of sociology and psych from grad school.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
air, water, warmth, nutrition, sex. that's five already.
Oh ... that kind of without.

- wine, cheese
- music. i don't play enough, though
- mountain biking, hiking, snowports, racket sports, exploring the woods..
- thinking, solving problems
- late night wine-fuelled daft conversations, reading Shakespeare scenes badly, destroying Palestrina in eight parts, and wonderful times with friends
-intimate friendship, closeness, trust
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
kittens, fluffy kittens.
(laughs maniacally, stroking a white cat. Ah, Mr Bond...)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
what does this thing "typical Friday night" mean?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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ask me. but be prepared to share. that's what it's all about...
You should message me if
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You like smart, strong, clumsy, nerdish witty blokes. And you're smart and full of energy too.