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tealmermaid

51 F San Anselmo, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 28
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Hawaiian (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The poet Hafiz says, "Love sometimes wants to do us a great favor, hold us upside down and shake all the nonsense out". Loved ones would describe me as: sensitive, honest, funny, warm, intelligent, compassionate, creative, empathic, without guile, magical, intense, easy going, passionate & soulful. I have taken the road less traveled for the last 20 years of my life. A path of heart, body, mind, and soul inquiry to continually gain awareness, embodiment, and stay present to life.

A bit of a paradox as I embody both salt of the earth/homebody and freedom loving/traveling soul. Translation: I love to travel, and stay open to growing, exploring new experiences with you and I'm happy and content to be home with you cooking up a yummy meal. I'm seeking my life partner who wants to continue growing together, yet also share hot monogamy. Nature is my healer, especially the ocean. I feel very blessed to keep discovering amazing new hiking trails here in Marin. This is very much a part of my lifestyle, staying close to nature.

My ideal would be a partner who also knows the balance of intimacy and solitude, that is knowing the subtle difference between being alone and being lonely.

I value honesty, transparency, depth, and loving kindness. In partnership I seek an inner resonance based upon depth, pure love, and growing ever deeper together. To live our aliveness and passion every day as well as our tenderness. To share a life based on shared values of joy, beauty, mutual respect, daily laugher, creativity and sharing our gifts with others. To have the willingness to work our edges with compassion, communication and love. We all come with wounds from our childhood, the vital ingredient is if we can be "aloe vera" (a soothing balm) instead of "salt" to one another's wounding. A line from an old Carlos Santana song sums it up nicely, "give me your heart, make it real or else forget about it".

P.S. If you have read this far, there are aspects of this "on line" procedure that for a woman can feel intrusive, thus the picture I've selected as I don't want my likeness displayed for just anyone. I'm happy to send more photos once we connect.
For the record, my eyes are sometimes blue, sometimes green---my mom has one of each. My hair is blonde and in a braid in this picture.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it with as much awareness, wonder, passion, joy, laughter, innocence, beauty, balance, creativity, heart and soul I can muster in any given moment.

And attempting to finish this profile!

I'm self employed and work deeply with others. You need to be the type of man who is contained within himself and can trust and hold space for a powerful (true power from the heart--not false from ego) woman with deep intuitive gifts, transparency and who continues to grow. I also travel a lot---you can join me or you can celebrate me, but you must understand this part of my Soul.

And as Rilke wrote: "I want to unfold. Let no place in me hold itself closed. For where I'am closed, I'am false. I want to stay clear in your sight".
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Living from my heart...
Trusting my intuition...
Seeing the beauty/depth/joy/paradox in life...
Helping others do the same...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That would entirely depend upon the person and their focus in life now wouldn't it? Usually it's the color of my eyes or my effervescent energy or so I've been told.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Hafiz, Rumi, David Whyte, & Rilke are some of my fave poets.
On my nightstand currently is: A Course in Miracles & my dream journal to record dreams which stay. Other books come and go but for now it's Seeds of Awareness by Bob Perdersen, Wisdom of Ennegram by Riso & Hudson, The Way of Passion by Andrew Harvey.
Music: Way too many to list, love all of it (save heavy metal/rap/techno). Yet, I can only listen to IZ or Kealii Reichel if I'm packing for the islands as I'll miss the islands too much if I listen to that music.
American Movies I've enjoyed: Ladyhawke, Chocolat, Dangerous Beauty, Practical Magic, Little Miss Sunshine, The Illusionist (with Ed Norton not the recent animation one with same name), Curious Case of Benjamin Button, Somewhere in Time, Powder, The Mission, The Last of the Mohicans, The Last Samurai, Dances with Wolves.

What I've noticed the last 20 years with friends is that with a deep essence connection these favorite things just seem to flow naturally and easily...as if an inner harmony already in place simply moves us toward both wanting Thai food or Indian, or a foreign film, etc...it's a fun discovery and a vibrant way to live life...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Feeling Grace and my connection to the Infinite...
Love in all it's myriad of forms...family, friends, animals.
Sustainable planet which provides a beautiful ocean, trees, abundant organic food, clean air, etc...
My beloved once I find him...
Dancing, swimming, hiking, loving, meditating, cooking all count as one don't they?
Seeing the profound preciousness/beauty in life...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Is it possible to find a needle in a haystack?
And what would it be like to live in extended community (everyone has their own home) and we share some land in which we are growing our own food, have a center gathering space, and are giving back in a myriad of ways with creative projects, retreats, service, joy....perhaps building a small hospice for conscious dying?
And lately....how do we as a species wake up to what we are doing in regards to our planet...(war, oil, gmo food, economy, tsunami) and how do we keep our hearts open & responsive despite all the incredible suffering that seems to be happening now?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My life is not typical...
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 48–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have a pure heart, are looking for your life partner, have no addictions, are healthy on all levels, are happy with your life, and embody a deeply masculine prescence. Also, you enjoy & celebrate your partner being in her deeply feminine essence. (Refer to David Dieda's books to further understand masculine/feminine essence the way I'm using it here). You've read this profile and feel a stirring in your heart. You love to laugh and see the beauty in life each day. You can sustain deep intimacy and have been looking for a partner to not only meet you there but to continue growing together. You actually believe in love and desire to call in your beloved. You desire her to embody all that I've written about and more to be discovered privately between us. You have learned, as I, to plant flowers not weeds in the "cracks of your heart" through out this life journey. You are deeply honest, emotionally available, and have an awesome sense of humor and old fashinoned manners as well!