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28 M Raleigh, NC

My Details

Last Online
Jan 8, 2012
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Not at all
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
According to others: I'm smart, Quirky, I have a good sense of humor, albeit dark.

I have "incredible taste in music" really I like everything. People say my music is "emo" and /wrist. I don't cut myself. I'm tired of it. I am what I am. Depends on who you ask though.

I don't know how to describe myself except to say I'm a libertarian socialist (I don't like labels, but it's so rare and it fits) and what i'm looking for in a woman is someone who is NOT submissive, domesticated, god help me the last thing I'd ever want was a house wife.

I like strong willed girls, please, if you have a thing for being abused or have a vendetta against nice guys do NOT contact me. I might be nice but i'm NOT a push over. Like I said, I like a girl with a little fire, because I have it too.

If I was with you you'd better believe i'd encourage you to get your ass in school and be on the career path. I'm not intimidated by the idea of you being more sucessful than me.

However long that list is, or strong that sounds however alturism and self sacrifice are the ultimate attractors for me. Partly because I need a savior, partly because I want to reward anyone that kind. As a result I end up attracted to a lot of codependents. It's cool, except when they NEED the abuse.

I'm just looking for a nice girl who wants a genuinely nice guy, I don't know why that seems like too much to ask for in this day and age. People seem to associate kindness with weakness, Don't mistake the two.

I'm looking for someone who doesn't mind an endless fountain of affection. Hugs, and cuddles are my bread and butter. All you need in life is hugs.
What I’m doing with my life
Planning for College. Probably a psych major. Volunteer at the Southeast regional library, Entering orientation for volunteering at the SPCA, sponging off my government benefits... thinking about taking up Ju Jitsu courses, excercising, making plans to go back to orlando.
I’m really good at
Writing. Critical thinking. Planning things thru in organized fashion, Finding motivation, Finding the silver lining.
The first things people usually notice about me
uhh usually that the person i'm with is being a pain in the ass and i'm handling it *oh so patiently* ...I bet you thought I was going to say my eyes right?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books: letter to a christian nation, I like fantasy but need to read more of it, imperial life in the emerald city, other various damning accountso f the bush administration, the phantom tollbooth,

webcomics: order of the stick, xkcd, achewood60s: Blue oyster cult, Jackson Browne, Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, Phil Ochs, The Beatles
60s: Blue oyster cult, Jackson Browne, Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, Phil Ochs, The Beatles, stevie nicks
80s: Amy Grant, Bad English, Das Ich, KMFDM, L7, Nine inch nails, Pat Benatar, Roxette, The Cure, The Lunachicks, U2, Bikini Kill,
90s: 311, AFI, Alanis Morisette, Arch Enemy, Bloodhound gang, Bwitched, Children of Bodom, Eve 6, Everclear, Garbage, Gil Ofarim, Hanson, Hammerfall, Korn, Leah Andreone, Marilyn Manson, Matchbox 20, Nirvana, No doubt, Our lady peace, Placebo, Portishead, Real McCoy, Sarah McLachlan, Savage garden, Save Ferris, Sinead O'Connor, Stabbing Westward, Third eye Blind, Tool, Tori Amos, Wumpscut
00s: Adam Freeland, A Perfect Circle, Brand New, Colbie Caillat, CSS, Darkest Hour, Dashboard Confessional, Data Rock, Double drive, Finch, Flyleaf, Incubus, Ingrid Michaelson, Jackoff Jill, Jena Malone and her Bloodstains, Joan Osbourne, Kill Hannah, Lilix, Lily Allen, Linkin Park, Lullacry, Mandy Moore, Meredith Brooks, Michelle Branch, Neuroticfish, Owl City, Paramore, Pretty Girls Make Graves, Rasputina, Regina Spektor, Roy Zimmerman, Sarah McLachlan, Shai Hulud, Soho dolls, Taking back Sunday, The Birthday Masacare, The Postal Service, The Shoe, theSTART, The Used, The Veronicas, Tsunami Bomb, Uh Huh Her, Vanessa Carlton, VNV Nation
Unknown: Tricks upon Travelers,
Manga: Inu Yasha (finished), Full metal alchemist (on the latest issue)

Video games: Final Fantasy IV, Final Fantasy 4, Final Fantasy VI, final Fantasy 6, Chrono Trigger, Secret of mana, Final fantasy VIII, Final Fantasy 8, Final Fantasy IX, Final Fantasy 9, Final Fantasy X, final fantasy 10, World of warcraft, Dragonrealms, Gemstone IV,
The six things I could never do without
Music, My Family, Love, Comedy, Anime, the wilderness
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How i'm going to get out of here.
On a typical Friday night I am
Likely arguing politics with someone online... I wish I was out somewhere DISTRACTED!!!! Ignorance is bliss my friends. I hate my intelligence except where it comes in handy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I live at home currently and don't have a car.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–25
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You can see the good in everyone and you're not hopelessly conflicted...